I feel like its happening again

[CSU]

I started talking to a guy towards the end of January and everything seemed to be going well til this weekend. From what he told me he's sick which I want to believe but when I text him he responds a day later. I know it seems like I'm being over dramatic but around my bday I went through a similar thing with a guy in navy but his excuse was he's been going through a lot of stuff and that kind of bs but it turned out he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend who he always talked bs about. Now with this new guy he's not in the military at all which is a good thing. He kinda reminds me of myself and last week he asked me if I could deal with someone living an hour away from me because he does live an hour away from me, I told him I could deal with it and I asked him the same and he told me so could he. We also talked about trust issues because we both gotten screwed over before. He also told me that he feels like I'm someone he can talk to about anything and that he feels like he can be himself around me and that he enjoys talking to me and texting me throughout the day. I know none of this makes sense but I just need to vent about what I'm feeling again. I don't know I just feel like what happened with navy guy is starting to happen with this current guy and I don't think I can deal with that kind of hurt again. I want to believe him but I can't. He also told me that since we started talking that he notice that I have a wall up and that I hate getting close to people which is true because with the navy guy it kinda ruined my trust with anyone and made me not want to get close to anyone. I hate to compare these two guys but I just feel like that pain is going to happen again. I don't know what to do. Should I call and ask what's up or send a text asking how he's feeling or do both or should I wait for him to contact me?

[BG1985]

If he's interested in you, he'd still respond to your text messages in a timely manner.