FabulousLadee Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 It's over. We talked and based on his conversation..he truly doesnt love me. He admitted to a lot of things and I'm crushed. A year of wasted time, energy, emotions, and money just gone.
hoping2heal Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 That is terrible! I am sorry *hug* . No one wants to hear that someone has been faking their feelings in a relationship for any amount of time;let alone a year. However, you can now move on and forget that zero and find yourself a hero. Honestly, nothing pisses me off like when people tell someone they have been holding the truth in. That is the WORST. Let's roll him.
skydiveaddict Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 (edited) It's over. We talked and based on his conversation..he truly doesnt love me. He admitted to a lot of things and I'm crushed. A year of wasted time, energy, emotions, and money just gone. It wasnt wasted time, I know it seems like that right now, but it's just life. Ya have to live it to feel it, good and bad. I'm crushed right now too. There's really no way to make sense of it, but I know what you're feeling. H2H is right. There's someone out there for you. Take care Edited February 23, 2010 by skydiveaddict
zebracolors Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Bah, I'm also sorry to hear FL. Guess just try to be strong, give yourself time to grieve, (but not too much) then go from there when you're ready :hug:
skydiveaddict Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 BTW, If you girls decide to roll him, I'll help!
aerogurl87 Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Aww I hate hearing things like this FabolousLadee, but know in time you will find someone better who is worthy of your time and energy.
Flavour Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 If you were not right for him, it is because HE is not right for you. If he does not love you, you did not lose anything. One year? It could be worse, you could lose 5 or 10 or 20 yrs. It happens. Just thank God you discovered it in time, before doing MAJOR mistakes. You have your family, your friends, your life, your God, but especially you have YOURSELF. You are not alone. (((((hugs))))
carvidep Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 *HUGS!!!* I went through 6 months of that. Yuck! I know it's no fun at all and it makes you feel like crap, but think of it as a learning experience. Right now focus on YOU and make YOU happy. It'll take some time, but trust me, it'll happen. But for now I'll leave you with these: *even more HUGS!!!*
Author FabulousLadee Posted February 23, 2010 Author Posted February 23, 2010 Thanks everybody. I really appreciate all of your encouragement. I saw it coming. I was just something to do and use.
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