Confused1331 Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Alright so heres the deal. I have been wit this guy. lets call him (timmy). Timmy and I have been dating for 9 months. we have broken up twice and gotten bac together both times. i love timmy alot and wanna be wit him but theres a problem. His bestfriend lets call him (tyler). Me and tyler have been friends for almost 4 years. we also dated about 5 times never gettin back together for a long time. Tyler was the one who got me and Timmy together. but they have been friends longer. when me and timmy first started dating me and tyler were talking like friends but then it got more serious. he began telling me all those things a girl wants to her from her boyfriend. but he wasn't my boyfriend he was me and timmy's bestfriend. i told timmy and we didn't break up i ended my feelings for tyler or at least i thought i did. during the summer this year me and tyler began talking like friends again we began to fight about everything. like me and timmy being together and how i changed since ive been wit him. me and tyler cried and just let out everything. then stayed friends. 5 days ago i had a dream about me and tyler. i dream i woke up crying and screaming from. I told tyler about it and we thought i woke up crying because of the feeling that i ended up having once again and told him about. but i realized after the next two nights of the dreams. i woke up crying and screaming because i didn't want to wake up. in my dreams i was really happy wit tyler. and didn't want anything to be differnet. i have had these dreams for 5 nights. each the same way waking up crying and screaming. i havent had a full nights sleep in 5 days. i even broke me and tyler's friendship because of these dreams and because of my feelings. today he and his cousin asked me to hangout i saidd no thinking of my feeligns and of how me and tyler weren't friends. which he clearly didn't want to happen. he wants to be friends but he knows how i feel. but thats the thing now thinking about it. i am not sure about me and timmy and me and tyler. like i want to be happy but im scared. i have been hurt by both of them. tyler hurt me about 5 times but i always went back to him until the last time. when he got me together wit timmy. who hurt me 1 time. i hurt him 1 time two. but now we are together and im havin feelings for his bestfriend. i have no idea wat to do i really need help wit this.... Confused,
boogieboy Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Either get back with tyler, or leave both of them. Its not right for you to stay with timmy when youre thinking of tyler.
St. Nick Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Why is it always women and dreaming? A woman has a dream about something and now it's something important. And I got confused, which one is Timmy and which one is Tyler? Which one if yer bf and which is the friend? One hurt you 1 time, the other hurt you 5 times, but you're hornier for the one who hurt you worse, huh? In any case, I already know which one yer gonna choose: the one who hurt you 5 times so he can do it for a 6th and maybe a 7th, 8th, and 9th time. And then yer gonna turn bitter and think it's the guy's fault for mistreating you and wonder where the good men are at. I've heard this story before, you're going with the jerk who hurt you more cuz that's what you want. Even Miss Cleo with her fake psychic powers could tell me this.
Krytie TV Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Timmy and I have been dating for 9 months. we have broken up twice Obviously a powerful relationship. Just move on with bf's best friend. Always a solid choice... not.
txsilkysmoothe Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 You shouldn't be involved with either one of them. Clearly you can't commit to either one of them. Neither one of them has treated you well. You need to stop dating for awhile and build some friendships with women and not men.
Author Confused1331 Posted February 23, 2010 Author Posted February 23, 2010 thankx everyone. it helps some. but im still not to sure. im am gunna try and focus on me and timmy (bf) & just leave everything wit tyler(friend) maybe that will be best.
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