Arabella Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 So ever since our last flurry of emails, ex and I have been in touch regularly. A couple of days ago, we had a fight about something he'd done and I told him to never contact me again. I was just livid and disgusted with him. He reacted by calling me and saying he wanted to work things out. We talked for the longest we'd talked in the past six months. He apologized, told me all he's been up to over the past three months since we broke up... including a brief relationship he had with some girl and all kinds of serious family issues. I told him we could talk about it but that I could make no promises. Today I just began to think about everything he's done and got really angry at him. I sent him a couple texts asking him not to contact me again and an email explaining that I don't think we can work things out at this point in time. I just don't want to be with the person he's become. I don't trust him or respect him anymore and I'm still too hurt. I know I should feel good that I had the strength to do this but for some reason... I feel like the last little bit of hope just died. Arabella
paleblue Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 My dear Arabella. trust and respect are the foundations of a relationship!!! if you dont have trust and respect you have nothing!! you should be angry. he is ranting about a brief relationship he had? while you were still thinking about him when apart? i know its hard... but think about it... how can you be with him now??? i know it hurts.... i am sure you feel good about sticking up for yourself, which you should, tho i understand that hope has died feeling over shadows everything else. it is not pleasant. but in a sense it could also be a blessing in disguise now that you know how you feel. so yes hope has died for now, good thing there is more to the story : )
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