aerogurl87 Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 (edited) Hey LSers, well I haven't been on here in a few weeks, but I do have an update on what happened with my ex boyfriend. Well to be short, never again will I take a second chance on him and possibly any other guy for that matter. But here's the long version of what happened. All was good and well, until one night while texting we came to a crossroad on things. I had came to the conclusion that I was no longer going to put up with his bullsh*t anymore and decided to go for an ultimatum. Either we started working on us now (he did have 6 months to think about everything) or we never talk again. And in the typical a**hole fashion of my ex, he decided that he'd just never talk to me again. Apart of me was shocked because he did actually seem sincere in wanting to work things out, but another part of me wasn't surprised at all. He had left me after all half a year before out of the blue for some random woman. Why had I thought he'd changed, I don't know. Anyway, a few days later I got a better picture of what had happened from his sister. Apparently my ex was still enjoying being a player and his excuses of "I don't want to hurt you" were just masks to cover up the fact that he didn't want to have a girlfriend still. I also found out that he was drinking heavily again and spiraling more and more out of control. Definitely a situation I didn't want to be in. So nope, never again will I take him back even if it's years down the road. I thought we could work out, but when someone is that messed up, it's hard to try and have a healthy relationship with them. And now I'm actually quite happy things didn't work out. I don't want any part of his drama filled life and I'm happy to have severed the ties I had with him. EDIT: I've also decided that I'm going to finally send his ring back to him. I don't want it and I know it has alot of sentimental value for him, so that's the only thing stopping me from throwing it into the nearby lake. Just getting rid of that last piece of him that exists in my life will be good. Edited February 22, 2010 by aerogurl87
BigTenInchRecord Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 Good for you girl. I obviously don't know your ex but he sounds like he can be a real *******, and you most certainly deserve better. I'll tell you what, before long his drinking is going make him rock bottom, and don't be surprised if he comes crawling back. Stay strong and true to your word, and you'll find someone who actually treats you right, and stays by your side. Best of luck.
Author aerogurl87 Posted February 22, 2010 Author Posted February 22, 2010 Good for you girl. I obviously don't know your ex but he sounds like he can be a real *******, and you most certainly deserve better. I'll tell you what, before long his drinking is going make him rock bottom, and don't be surprised if he comes crawling back. Stay strong and true to your word, and you'll find someone who actually treats you right, and stays by your side. Best of luck. Well he texted me this morning and asked me how I was doing. So I told him I was going to Canada this summer and he proceeded to tell me to grow up. Ha, like it's something he'll ever do. I think he was mad because for once, when he talked to me I was completely happy and fine without him being in my life and I didn't even mention wanting him back because I don't. And I know I'll find someone better than him sooner or later. Just waiting for life to repay me for all the hard work I put into being with him by giving me someone who does deserve me and loves me for me.
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