justagirl09 Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 I have been talking this guy for a month. I dont really like the online thing because in the past, guys talk to you for 2weeks or so and then dissapear. Everything seems cool with us for the time being, but then something recently happened and he ended up in the hospital. We would usually email several times a day, and since this happened havent been as much. I know why, he is in pain and recuperating, and not himself. I have been there for him, and understand his pain. Just in my mind, i wonder if he is going to cut cotact at any given time or if maybe i said something he didnt like and he isnt interested anymore. I know i am acting needy for the constant communication, and i am trying to relax. I just get paranoid when he takes longer than usual to respond to a message, and the messages are less frequent than before...
paleblue Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 hmmm... i know the feeling. keep your guard up. your gut is telling you something...
amagordos Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 It means that he might be letting go of you. That you are right to worry about it. Why don't you try contacting him one last time and see what happens. Tell him you want to know if its over or not. If not that, then wait and see if he contacts you, but he lasts longer than you want him to, then perhaps he moved on.
SoleMate Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 It is very dangerous to become emotionally dependent on someone you've never even met. The chance that "he" is insincere or dishonest is substantial. If I were in your shoes, since I'm data driven, I'd call the hospital and ask if I can send flowers to Mr. X. Then you can see if "he" is actually in the hospital. If you have never actually met "him" IRL, you don't even know for sure if "he"'s male, let alone single and all those other things "he" told you....
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