HockeyMom Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 Last night was the first night I had to see my ex at work since he and his new gf moved in together... It was so hard, just felt different. I know he's making a mistake but obviously he doesn't. We practically colided into each other, it was so awkward!! I just wanted to cry in his arms...It just crushes me when I see him and I can't imagine that he doesn't feel something. Why does it feel like we're strangers to each other after all we've been through?
Gcm Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 Last night was the first night I had to see my ex at work since he and his new gf moved in together... It was so hard, just felt different. I know he's making a mistake but obviously he doesn't. We practically colided into each other, it was so awkward!! I just wanted to cry in his arms...It just crushes me when I see him and I can't imagine that he doesn't feel something. Why does it feel like we're strangers to each other after all we've been through? You're not alone. I work with not only an ex girlfriend, but also a girl i've been seeing for the last 7 months (it's now off) and a girl I used to sleep with 2 years ago. I'm not a male whore, I hadn't approached any of the three girls i've slept with and they were the ones who initiated contact. Initially, I didn't want anything from them until we hung out outside of work. With the girl I've been seeing most recently, she broke it off yesterday - long story. Today at work, she was on the last two hours of her shift as I came in to start mine. She didn't seem herself and looked far more reserved than what she used to. That said, I still want to know what was going on in that head of hers. I wanted to know if she was missing me as much as I was missing her. After she cut ties, I told her that I wanted to go back to how things were before we started seeing eachother. We didn't even speak to eachother at work and I told her we needed to rewind back to that and go NC. I was so tempted to send her an email today but didn't do it. I'm extremely stubborn and have far too much pride; after all, she called it quits. If she's to contact me, that's a different story. You know this guy better than us. Think of the way he'd act throughout the relationship and how he'd deal with different situations. You should be able to work out if he's feeling any guilt or anything for you. Once you've been dumped, your head generally builds up with negative thoughts and your perception of that person changes. Personally, in my situation, it's as though my brain is telling me that she's moved on in a day and she couldn't care less about me. Deep down though, I know what we shared and I know that she'd have to be feeling somewhat hurt.
sunrae Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 I would love to know the same thing... I would bump into my ex a few times a week, when he used to deliver to my work. We were always polite to each other, when I saw him, but sometimes always wondered what he thought (he called it off) when he would make the comment, I looked nice today, or when he struck up small talk. I would always just say hey, and keep on trucking until he would ask a question or something. Now he's no longer on our route and I dont have to worry about bumoing into him anymore, which is nice.
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