hellopeople Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Long story short… My ex of about 5 months broke up with me over a month ago because he wasn’t “mature enough for a serious relationship even though I was everything he wanted – best gf ever”. Needless to say, I was crushed and asked him to let me help him work on the relationship. He said even though he wanted to – really, really wanted to - he couldn’t do it at the time. He then said he wanted to remain friends b/c he liked me a lot. I told him I didn’t think that would be possible. I then told him I might not be around when he’s ready to which he replied “that’s a mistake I’m going to have to live with.” I went total NC – deleting him from fb, throwing away everything he gave me, my phone, switching out of the class I had signed up with him, etc. A couple days after the break up he texted me with a “hey” to which I never responded. I have since seen him in the library – the place where we both study even before we met. The first time I was there with a male friend. A week later I was there with the same friend. We crashed at a table out of his line of sight. He then proceeded to get up and move to where he could see us. The next time I was there, I was with a different male friend. This time, when my friend got up to do something, he walked past my ex. My ex then stared him down and kept sneaking glances at me. Now, last week we were both there pretty much ignoring each other. He then texted me asking if I would mind it if he came over to talk to me. I said that I didn’t. He made some small talk. He was fidgeting with his phone and came across as a little awkward. I on the other hand just smiled and talked normally. He then said he had to go but told me it was nice talking to me and he would see me around. That was on Wednesday. Nothing since then. Now, I just want to know… what’s going on? Why is he talking to me? If it’s over, he should have NO reason to want to talk to me. Unless it’s because he still feels bad about something. Or because he’s pretty much over it and feels that he can talk to me. His friends (which are my friends too) have casually mentioned that he sounds depressed on the phone. I’m just going to keep doing what I’m doing – but what do you guys think is going on? Plus, why does he still have my number? I mean, why not delete it? Why hold on to it?
LostInLimbo Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 Simple,He didn't want you, but didn't want anyone to have you, now there is someone "New" oh oh, or he thinks he has competition and reality now is, he has lost you possibly... Just my opinion... LiL
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