Not sure if its the right decision to do NC

[timmytak]

Me and my ex were suppose to hang out saturday to get breakfeast, I thought we were going to hang out all day. She comes over later on friday night and everything seems good, then she gets a phone call from her homegirl and I hear her saying yeah they are gonna meet up in the morning and hang out and do something, after she gets off the phone I get mad because I thought we were suppose to hang out all day but she said she never said that I said true but, you never said we werent, she then says you can come along to if you want, and I tell her no thanks I dont want to tag a along, I just get upset with her because I aways make her my priority and put her first no matter what but she does notwe get in a really huge fight that night, then we get in another fight on saturyday and on sunday it seems like its really over.

 

I tried to go see her at work to talk to her but she ignored me, I leave and I call her a little later we talk for a little bit, then we get into the conversation with her hanging out with her friends and how she does not like me coming a long because if feels like I am tagging a long,after she said all this I told her its over done and hang up the phone, later I text her how i feel about the situation and how I dont believe anything she says tome( she always says the sweetest things but never backs them up) well she has text me back but I have not read it. Should I read or should I just start NC? Advice please I dont want it to be over but I will not put up with being second when I make them my first, I just want her to put me first. Does that make sense?

[BootsElectric]

Dude, you are second best. You are no longer dating, she is not going to put you first, can't you see that? You need to stop hanging around, it's not going to help you move on or grow.

 

Trust me, I've been going through a very similar thing too. I don't want the woman who dumped me out of my life, but the couple occasions that we've communicated have left me feeling torn up inside. I don't want that, and neither should you.