6 weeks, thwarted, my special visitor

[mortensorchid]

I've been seeing this man for the last 6 weeks. He's great from what I can see, and last night he passed the acid test and felt comfortable with my friends. (I've had people in the past who have either run away completely or have become jealous or resentful of my friends enough to demand that it's either him or them, needless to say when a person demands something like this, the choice is quite clear - my friends thank you and not you. But I digress ...) He was indicating that last night was to be the night that we were going to do IT. But I had a terrible cold and said I would prefer to wait it out until the infection goes away. He was a disappointed, but he understood - I was coughing and blowing my nose the whole time we were out.

 

So here's my problem. Say we see each other next weekend. Next week happens to be the week of my period. Do I tell him this if it's not over with by the time we see each other? I don't want it to sound like an excuse.

[tami-chan]

So here's my problem. Say we see each other next weekend. Next week happens to be the week of my period. Do I tell him this if it's not over with by the time we see each other? I don't want it to sound like an excuse.

 

oh goodness...but yes, tell him now that you are expecting your period and that it USUALLY lasts for x number of days...that said, what will you say if he tells you he has no problem having sex while you are in your period? Just a side note: orgasm for women during their period can help relieve cramps...

[Art_Critic]

You tell him "Time to earn your red wings"

[Barky]

Let him know now.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

With the way this was written, I was expecting "the acid test" to BE your period.

[St. Nick]

Ugh. Any chick who demands me to met her friends as a test before sex is too immature for me and I start deleting her number from my cell.