Maria_la_Guera Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 I read that book over a year ago. It was a great way to drop useless people from my life, both my ex and some friends who actually never really cared about meeting me. So far so good. However, since then, I've had the worst luck ever in dating. In fact I've had no luck at all. I've been waiting for guys to ask me out, remember? I've been on two dates, one of which ended by the guy trying to force himself into my flat to have sex and the other one asked me out again and then never showed up. Never in my life have I had such a bad luck with guys. Before I used to make friends with guys first and then ask them to hang out somewhere as friends (no hanging out now!). I didn't work 100%, otherwise I'd be with my ex now, but at least I was with him for a while, instead of just meeting absolutely no one (and yes I have crushes but they never ask me out). Opinions?
tami-chan Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Maybe it's your attitude? Maybe the vibe you are giving off is "if you are not into me right now, I have no problem dropping you, just like that!"....most people are cautious about dating, I think...what do I know...lol
Author Maria_la_Guera Posted February 21, 2010 Author Posted February 21, 2010 Maybe the vibe you are giving off is "if you are not into me right now, I have no problem dropping you, just like that!" Wait, I thought that was the vibe you were MEANT to give off :/ Sometimes I think there is way too much advice for women for how to date and it's all contradictory. Like "don't be needy" but "don't scare him away". I mean, the truth is that I don't have a problem dropping someone who's not that into me, because I want someone who is. Isn't that the whole point?
tami-chan Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Wait, I thought that was the vibe you were MEANT to give off :/ Sometimes I think there is way too much advice for women for how to date and it's all contradictory. Like "don't be needy" but "don't scare him away". I mean, the truth is that I don't have a problem dropping someone who's not that into me, because I want someone who is. Isn't that the whole point? Well...i don't know..lol...I do know though, that nobody wants to feel disposable.
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