ladyjane83 Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 If you are in a bar/club and a girl approaches you to start conversation (obviously attracted to you) what kind of thing works? What should she say to initiate conversation? Or even girls....what kind of things do you say to initiate conversation with a guy you dont know but who you are attracted to? I often see guys that Im attracted to when on nights out, but have know idea what to say to initiate conversation with a stranger!
St. Nick Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Ask him if he wants to play beer pong, or some other drinking game. It once happened to me in a bar where I met some average-looking woman who asked me to play beer pong out of the blue. Within 30 minutes I was way more interested in her than the hotties down at the other end of the bar.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Introduce yourself.. I've asked a guy if I could buy them a drink before. (Hope that doesn't stir up another chivalry topic )
Barky Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 I'd say, make some TOPICAL comment. Frankly, I don't really like being hit on as a man. When I was younger I used to THINK I did, but when it actually happens it makes me feel uncomfortable. Unless the girl is just drop-dead gorgeous, I'm talking Megan Fox looks. But even then I'm like, "What does this chick want from me?" So if you do it, act a little breathless and ask him a playful question or something. And face him directly with your body. Especially if you're at a bar, don't sit there facing the bar and try to have a conversation by turning your head. Swivel around and face him. Make it clear you're checking him out and that you approve. Like look him up and down with approval. Otherwise he thinks you're out to get him to buy you a drink or something. Or you could just do what Courtney Cox's character does in "Cougar Town," go up to him and drunkenly say, "You are hot as balls!" A guy needs to know from the start that you're into him and not out to get money from him.
You'reasian Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 If you are in a bar/club and a girl approaches you to start conversation (obviously attracted to you) what kind of thing works? What should she say to initiate conversation? Or even girls....what kind of things do you say to initiate conversation with a guy you dont know but who you are attracted to? I often see guys that Im attracted to when on nights out, but have know idea what to say to initiate conversation with a stranger! Walk up. Get in their field of vision and introduce yourself. Be a little curious and a little flirtatious. What are you drinking (if it isn't obvious)?
steb123 Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Just walk up and say hello with a smile you will know if the opposite sex is attracted almost immediately.
MalachiX Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Honestly, and introduction works wonders. It's a simple and direct way to talk to someone just as you would any person who you happen to meet. If you like each other, then you can escalate flirtation but an honest introduction is a good way to start.
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