Gcm Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 (edited) My scenario: I've been seeing this girl exclusively (we were pretty much a couple yet neither of us admitted to it other people - or eachother) for the last 7 months. About 6 months prior to being her with, she had broken up with her ex of 5 + years. This was her first and only relationship; he screwed her around and left. She booked a trip overseas for mid this year and this week, she goes on a cruise for a week. She made these plans with the intention she was going to remain single, and then I came into the picture. We both have great trust in eachother and promised we'd speak out if we'd hooked up with anyone else or if we wanted to end what we had going on. Well today, she ended it. So what did I do? I slept with my ex. It seems like an extremely stupid thing to have done and you're right, it really was. It did absolutely nothing for me and now I have my psychotic ex somewhat back in the picture. We both swore we were taking tonight to our graves and I'm fairly confident she means that as much as I do. You guys don't count, you're anonymous I'm hoping she hooks up with people on her cruise and comes back feeling what I do at the moment. It's funny, I mean, when I first started seeing this girl, there were absolutely no feelings as I missed the things my ex did that she didn't. It's done a complete 180. Tonight while I was with my ex, I missed the things that the other girl did. I'm not really looking for flames about my "sleeping with the ex" situation. Stupid move and I'm aware of that. I just needed to get this off my chest. If she misses me when she returns, we'll see what happens from there. In all honesty, I don't think that's going to happen for some reason. She knows how stubborn I am and I don't think she'd cut ties completely if she had any thoughts about ever coming back. Edited February 21, 2010 by Gcm
Barky Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 I honestly don't know why you'd feel bad about sleeping with your ex. As the song goes, "The quickest way to get over someone is get under someone else." May I suggest you go ahead and sleep with at least one more woman before this girl returns from her trip? I have a feeling she dumped you to hook up with untold numbers of dudes on her cruise.
Author Gcm Posted February 22, 2010 Author Posted February 22, 2010 I honestly don't know why you'd feel bad about sleeping with your ex. As the song goes, "The quickest way to get over someone is get under someone else." May I suggest you go ahead and sleep with at least one more woman before this girl returns from her trip? I have a feeling she dumped you to hook up with untold numbers of dudes on her cruise. It's rather funny you say that. I was discussing my situation with a friend a little earlier and I told him that I felt like I needed "fresh meat" in order to feel better about the situation. Lets be honest though, if i'm going to stoop to that level, I should really be questioning if I want to be with this girl IF she does come back. My head is just a real big mess at the moment.
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