Brookshiii Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Before I begin, I'd like to start by briefly saying how I stumbled upon this haven me being up on a Saturday. And, I have been single for almost 2 years now. I don't know how I manage to still be alive, but people have told me I need to do what I "like to do" in order to move on. But it seems that those things I like to do make everyone but me happy, because I am burdened with the fact that there is no one to truly enjoy those things with. I mean, yeah, I have friends, but I see them on a regular basis. Finding affection out of the things that I like to do is impossible. So, this lack of social enjoyment has me purposely working to the bone (in a case of getting blisters frequently) to keep me sane, and not thinking about my position in life... I don't know what to do...
Patient Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 Hi Brookshii, I would just like to say that I understand how you feel..I am single now but only after having endured so many rough relationships and Im starting to feel like its meant for me to be alone...but how i feel and what really is is two different things..God made someone for all of us and even though it may take a while to find someone we will..you just have to be happy with yourself and find joy within..its hard being single especially when your used to always having somebody but one thing I learned is that if you arent happy with yourself you wont be happy in your relationship..take this time to work on yourself or some personal goals and keep you eye open for a new potential partner..but dont chase after one..it will come have patience..
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