feeling like i dont mean much

[hew]

So i would just like a little bit of perspective on what anyone might think.

I got over the fact that my boyfriend doesnt call me... but i feel like sometimes he doesnt show he cares. Sounds so brief over text when i try to talk. When he bails out on plans he just leaves a message on faceboook... makes me mad he cant pick up the damn phone and call?!?! like what if i wasnt able to get on the computer and read the message. Or i get really jealous when he talks to other girls. He commented on this one girls picture saying " yummy:)" which made me jealous. He never comments my pictures. I know this all sounds stupid, but sometimes it just makes me wonder. I just wish i felt more loved and cared about i guesss. Any thoughts?

[Jaytb]

hmm. it's reasonable, he should be giving you more attention. I don't know about commenting on your pictures, but he should at least call you on the phone if he can. You told him how you feel, yes?

[leoine]

This is what completely stands out.

 

When he bails out on plans he just leaves a message on faceboook... makes me mad he cant pick up the damn phone and call?!?!

 

To me, this is totally unacceptable. he doesn't seem to value your time at all.

If you've told him how you don't appreciate/accept this behaviour and he doesn't improve/correct it - leave him. It will save you a lot of tears, stress and doubts about the relationship in the future.

[TaraMaiden]

If you don't mean anything to yourself, how could you mean anything to him?

 

The more you tolerate this behaviour from him, the more you're telling him he can do it, because you'll take it.

The more you tolerate this behaviour from him, the more you're telling him that this is all you're worth.

 

Is this really acceptable to you?

is this what you're prepared to put up with?

More importantly - is this the way you want to be?

 

No?

Then do something.