Patient Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Hey guys, I'm in bit of a dilema. I've known this guy for about 6 months now..we used to talk and had a pretty ok relationship. We got into a little altercation because sometimes when I ask him a question he cant really give me a straight answer and it made me frustrated and talking turned into arguing...and now we barely talk if ever..but Ive recently realized that I'm in love with him..I think of him all the time, no guy can ever fill his shoes,no guy is important to me as I've tried to move on and its not working and all I want to do is be with him but I dont know if I should tell him or just leave it alone. Its driving me crazy. I told him I wasnt going anywhere like 2 days after we argued but all he said was "are you serious?" like he didnt believe me. Its been almost 3 weeks since we've talked and I just want him and I to be back like we were..any advice? what should I do? Thanks
sagetalk Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 It's hard to tell in cases such as these. Are you in love with the drama or him? If it's him, great. If if the drama, then it's bad news. I know that you will say that it's him you are in love with, but whether that is true or not is the key to your long term happiness. What made you realize all of sudden that he is it? Fights usually don't trigger that kind of thought process in healthy relationships.
littlewhiterose Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 What qualities does he have that made you realize that you love him?
Author Patient Posted February 21, 2010 Author Posted February 21, 2010 well hes attractive, respectful, smart, has alot going for himself,hes always been there for me and never judged me..and he always showed that he cared...I'm just so confused I dont know what to do..this keeps knawing at me and something keeps telling me to tell him but Im so afraid...I dont wanna make a mistake..
Author Patient Posted February 21, 2010 Author Posted February 21, 2010 well sagetalk I've known for a while...Im just really bad at showing feelings because I've been hurt so much but its like since this happened it just made me realize it anymore.I've only told him that I care for him and that was it I've never went into detail about feelings for him ..and I cant move on from it...
Kristine Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 This makes me think of the line if you let love go and it returns to you than it's meant to be. I understand how hard it is to lose someone you think you love. But if it didn't work out there's always a higher purpose. You will love again.
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