moodoo Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 so i spent the past few days in my hometown and I had been talking to this girl for a few weeks and we went out 4 of the 6 nights i was in town. She spent the night in my bed once but she didn't want anything to happen, the last night before I left she met me after dinner with her friend, we had some drinks and we had a little kiss on the lips and she said in a month when I move back for good, she'd like something more serious between us. Now, Im back in LA now 3,000 miles away, and she openly told me she liked me but needed a little time to get over her ex bc they broke up a month ago and I was wondering how much or how little I should be talking to her over this week and the next coming ones until I move back.....I dont wanna call her everyday and make her think im needy, but I dont wanna just blow her off and make her think I dont care, I really like her and want this to go well
lookin2wardthefuture Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 From a woman's point of view, if you claim to be interested and I claim to be interested then I want you to act interested. Wait 3-4 days and give her a call, if she's receptive, give her another call in 3-4 and so on. This way you're not being needy you're acting the way you feel, interested.
sullysteve Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 She's still getting over her ex and you're 3000 miles away. What does calling her accomplish if you can't date her? You'll be home in a month anyway, so make your move then.
alphamale Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Now, Im back in LA now 3,000 miles away, and she openly told me she liked me but needed a little time to get over her ex bc they broke up a month ago and I was wondering how much or how little I should be talking to her over this week and the next coming ones until I move back..... i would wait for her to call you
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