tnc0712 Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 my lovely excuse for a boyfriend just told me he was planning on leaving me when he got his car back from his mom. This is after he accused me of sleeping with several different men, most of which i dont know. The rest i think of as family. This is after i find a note about late night sex in his pants pocket. I am in over my head. Any advice would be appreciated.
curiousnycgirl Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 What type of advice are you looking for? How to keep him or how to move on? I strongly urge you to move on and go full no contact. Count yourself lucky that it's over and you can get on with your life.
Author tnc0712 Posted February 20, 2010 Author Posted February 20, 2010 i realize its pretty much over. Its been over for months now, and i have been holding on. His accusing me of cheating doesnt even come as a huge shock, so it shouldnt be so hard to let go. But i honestly dont have anywhere i can go, because i refuse to be separated from my kitty. I just need to know life will be better once i turn my back. I feel as if he has held me back from my goals for so long, and i am ready to become who i think i should be. I just want advice on the breaking up end of things, i guess.
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