so_mo34 Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 i made the biggest mistake of my life. i hooked up with a guy from work. he is 35 and i am 22. then i started liking him big time and kept seeing him. i know he was just using me as he treats me like dirt. he is a player too and always hits on girls as young as 18. i knew he was probably sleeping with other girls too, but stupid me kept giving in to him because i liked him so much. he hasn't been texting me anymore and i get really upset when he doesn't. we work in different departments but i still see him 3 days a week. i feel really used, worthless and pathetic. i learned my lesson for sure and im not going to hook up with him anymore no matter how tempting it is. but im having a REALLY hard time getting over him. any tips? i really don't want to quit my job because i love the people. and how can i get my pride back? im really worried about what he thinks of me also has this happened to girls before? if he gets a gf, im not sure how im going to handle it.
skydiveaddict Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 You get over him by having nothing more to do with him. I mean nothing! No calls, texts, email, IM, fb. Ignore anything he sends you. He will continue to use you if you let him. If you must see/communicate with him @ work keep it as short as possible, and discuss nothing but business. Start hanging close to your friends, lean on them for support. keep yourself busy, exercise, try not to be alone. This is when you will think about him. Get into some new hobbies, activities and read [COLOR=#990000]The No Contact Guide[/COLOR].. good luck to ya. Just remember, he USED you. you deserve better
oneheart Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Thanks for that link SDA. Things have just ended for me with my bf of 2 years and that link helps so much! Thanks and of course to the original author.
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