ilikegirls Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 like whenever i ask her what she wants to do she says "i dont know" "i dont care" "what ever you want" etc etc or if i make a suggestion she says the same things like i should be happy that shes down to do whatever, but i wish knew what she wanted because i want to make her happy. i dont want to do somthing she doesnt. but its not only for going out, its for everything she is like this. when we are out we can talk about nothing for forever and we have the great times together. but this is starting to annoy me. idk what to do? & why does she do that?
Els Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Well, if I were you one day I'd just say, "I really don't know where to go tonight, either, so I suppose we're stuck at home unless you've any ideas".
USMCHokie Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 She's indecisive and lazy...doesn't want to do any of the work or make any of the decisions...very poor character traits if you ask me...I guess she expects you to do all the heavy lifting in the relationship...and since you allow it to happen, she'll keep doing it... I'm kind of in a phase of my life that if something about a girl is just fundamentally wrong, like what you brought up, I'll launch without hesitation...I guess that's why I'm alone... But then again, I haven't really tried either... If something bothers you in a relationship, the first and best thing you can do it COMMUNICATE with her...talk with each other about the issues before they become problems...
meerkat stew Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 What are you crazy? That's a keeper man!
hats Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Why does she do this? Because she's a woman. What should you do? Be a man. Make the decisions.
BG1985 Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 As a guy you're supposed to make the decisions over what y'all do. If she doesn't want to do something, she'll let you know.
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