Sweetie1977 Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Are there not allot of good looking guys in the world? Me and my friends usually find the same small group of Men attractive and when we go to social places like maybe one or two guys in each place,we dont find the averge guy attractive and i know allot of owmen liek that I know were wired to find the biggest best mate so allot of its is subocnsious and beyond our control,maybe its also tv and media that conditions us to only find classically handsome guys attratcive just like men with women? I wish i wasnt so picky but the average guy doesnt do it for me
You'reasian Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Are there not allot of good looking guys in the world? Me and my friends usually find the same small group of Men attractive and when we go to social places like maybe one or two guys in each place,we dont find the averge guy attractive and i know allot of owmen liek that I know were wired to find the biggest best mate so allot of its is subocnsious and beyond our control,maybe its also tv and media that conditions us to only find classically handsome guys attratcive just like men with women? I wish i wasnt so picky but the average guy doesnt do it for me Are you average in appearance? I'm a guy. I'm probably just a bit below.... but I'm comfortable.
USMCHokie Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 I wish i wasnt so picky but the average guy doesnt do it for me As you get older, I have a feeling this will change...
carhill Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Yeah, OP, I know what you mean. No matter where I travel, I walk the streets, look around and go 'meh, where have all the good women gone?'. It's like this mass of gray with a rare gem glowing here and there. Hopefully one of your gems will work out
PJKino Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Well ive been invisible to womenfor 20 plus years so perhaps its true or im just hideous looking.. But i have noticed women do seem to go after the same small group of Men
zebracolors Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Hey OP, Zoosk apparently has the hottest guys on the internet:lmao: If you're aware of seeming too picky then you probably are. Try getting to know a guy on a mental level and you might not be so lonely. If I had to pick, Id take a witty, confident, average looking guy over a male model type guy who's only asset is probably his looks.
You'reasian Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 If I had to pick, Id take a witty, confident, average looking guy over a male model type guy who's only asset is probably his looks. what if he's hung like Rocco siffredi...then you'd be singing a different story...
sagetalk Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 What is a classically handsome guy? If you're talking about these idiots at clubs that are walking around on steroids and growth hormones, then that's not a classically handsome guy, that's a big tool bag. If you're talking about Ralph Lauren models, then ok those are classically handsome men. There are lots of guys that have classic looks, they just don't take care of themselves because they are heterosexual men and most heterosexual men don't try to make themselves look like a model. They are too busy working on cars, fishing, playing sports, camping, playing video games, working, studying, working out, to give a rat's butt about their wavy hair, buying a women approved wardrobe, plucked eyebrows, and manicures. If I had posted what you posted, but made it about women instead, I would have been flamed.
You'reasian Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Well ive been invisible to womenfor 20 plus years so perhaps its true or im just hideous looking.. But i have noticed women do seem to go after the same small group of Men Oh I understand, I'm there with you. We're kindered spirits. That's ok. The club scene is short-term fun, not really long-term satisfaction. If you can get lucky, more power to you.
PJKino Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Oh I understand, I'm there with you. We're kindered spirits. That's ok. The club scene is short-term fun, not really long-term satisfaction. If you can get lucky, more power to you. Im not a club guy at all..Maybe go once or twice a year to friends brithday parties thats it.. More of a bar person but never got lucky there or with women in my social circle either All my friends are married now and i rarely see single women anymore but i gues its better not seeing em then being ignored by em or rejected
BobSacamento Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 My question is, Where have all the thin women gone? Finding a woman that is in shape and is unattached is like trying to find the grail.
You'reasian Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Im not a club guy at all..Maybe go once or twice a year to friends brithday parties thats it.. More of a bar person but never got lucky there or with women in my social circle either All my friends are married now and i rarely see single women anymore but i gues its better not seeing em then being ignored by em or rejected Yeah. Time to start expanding that social circle a bit. Try different venues.
You'reasian Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 My question is, Where have all the thin women gone? Finding a woman that is in shape and is unattached is like trying to find the grail. Hopefully you are in good shape, to get your best foot forward. Best places to meet fit women? Gyms Gym activities Clubs (yea, I know - terrible) 5K/10K races Dancing (non-crotch grinding type) short triathlons rock climbing pools skiing/snow boarding martial arts - more so karate-type classes or aikido, sometimes kickboxing
betamanlet Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 As you get older, I have a feeling this will change... not in DC ................
Yamaha Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 I guess the fact that your wired to only be attracted to the "best" guys makes it beyond your control. Your just going to have to make sure one of these guys are attracted to you, problem solved.
PJKino Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 I guess the fact that your wired to only be attracted to the "best" guys makes it beyond your control. Your just going to have to make sure one of these guys are attracted to you, problem solved. Shell get one to sleep with her then leave her and shell complain that all guys are aholes.
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