shadowplay Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Goddamn. I just did a quick search on OKcupid and found two exes and the guy I had a huge crush on for seven years there. Plus a bunch of guys I just know. WTF. hahaha
RobM Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 After reading your other thread let me say, please don't contact any of them and ask them questions.
Author shadowplay Posted February 20, 2010 Author Posted February 20, 2010 After reading your other thread let me say, please don't contact any of them and ask them questions. Are you serious? Shut up.
whichwayisup Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Can I just ask why you're on that site? If you're now in a relationship, checking out a site like that might bug your bf.. Reverse this, if it were him on cupid and you somehow found out, wouldn't you be hurt and question him? I know you're probably just looking, but honestly, what is the point of doing so? Especially since you saw 2 ex's. People who hurt you and people you NEED to forget about completely.
whichwayisup Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Ofcourse she isn't. But, looking could set off triggers for you shadow. Look forwards, not backwards.
Author shadowplay Posted February 20, 2010 Author Posted February 20, 2010 Are you going to contact them? No, of course not. I was just looking to see if I knew anyone on it for fun. If I honestly wanted to contact them, I'd have better ways.
Author shadowplay Posted February 20, 2010 Author Posted February 20, 2010 Can I just ask why you're on that site? If you're now in a relationship, checking out a site like that might bug your bf.. Reverse this, if it were him on cupid and you somehow found out, wouldn't you be hurt and question him? I know you're probably just looking, but honestly, what is the point of doing so? Especially since you saw 2 ex's. People who hurt you and people you NEED to forget about completely. I'd be hurt only if I didn't understand why. Given that I was just looking for fun and curiosity (not because I want to meet anyone), I don't think it's a big deal. Sheesh, people are so judgmental on here. They scrutinize every littlet hing. I haven't done anything wrong.
Author shadowplay Posted February 20, 2010 Author Posted February 20, 2010 Ofcourse she isn't. But, looking could set off triggers for you shadow. Look forwards, not backwards. I get what you're saying, but it actually just amused me more than anything.
whichwayisup Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 I am not judging you..At all. Sorry you see it that way. Just seeing as what you just posted on your other thread, I honestly thought that you seeing two x's might upset or trigger you. You've been through ALOT recently, also your hormones probably are out of whack too. I mean that too, out of concern, NOT judgement.
Knittress Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Why are you guys reading so much into Okcupid? Sheesh. I've spent a lot of time on there pre/during/post relationship if only because I'm a total quizwh**e.
DiscoChick Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Why are you guys reading so much into Okcupid? Sheesh. I've spent a lot of time on there pre/during/post relationship if only because I'm a total quizwh**e. Same here.
Pizzaman81 Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Goddamn. I just did a quick search on OKcupid and found two exes and the guy I had a huge crush on for seven years there. Plus a bunch of guys I just know. WTF. hahaha now they know you viewed them!
Author shadowplay Posted February 20, 2010 Author Posted February 20, 2010 now they know you viewed them! I'm pretty sure I unchecked that option. I hope!
Art_Critic Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Can I just ask why you're on that site? If you're now in a relationship, Shadow.. this was the first thing that came into my mind.. WTF girl ? You are disrespecting your BF at his point.. Why not ask him what he thinks of you digging into your ex's profiles online.. Give your current BF the time and energy you are putting into your past and things will be okay...
skydiveaddict Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 I think I'm still on that site somewhere. yikes!
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