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Hey everyone,

 

I have a first date tonight with a guy that I met at a singles' party last weekend. He seemed like a decent guy so I agreed to go out with him.

 

He sent me a text message confirming our date that said "See you at 7:30. Wear something cute for me tonight ;)".

 

This caught me a little off guard because I don't know him well enough to tell if he is just trying to be funny. I have a history of attracting guys who are only interested in sleeping with me. Should I take this as a bad sign?

 

Thanks :)

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Hey everyone,

 

I have a first date tonight with a guy that I met at a singles' party last weekend. He seemed like a decent guy so I agreed to go out with him.

 

He sent me a text message confirming our date that said "See you at 7:30. Wear something cute for me tonight ;)".

 

This caught me a little off guard because I don't know him well enough to tell if he is just trying to be funny. I have a history of attracting guys who are only interested in sleeping with me. Should I take this as a bad sign?

 

Thanks :)

 

that's what happens when you're attracted to alpha males.

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Should I take this as a bad sign?

only if he complains about what u wore

Posted

hmmm, i wouldnt tell someone that meeting them for the FIRST time. than again he may only be flirting.

 

you will have to find out and let us know.

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I'd take it as a joke, but I'd be sorely tempted not to dress up too much.

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I believe you don't have to take it too serious...But again, since it is a first date, if i were you I would be on my guard and be very careful...I mean since you are getting to know each other and stuff, I would suggest you to dress decent.

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I just thought I'd give a little update on the situation. I went on a date with the guy and it was one of the best dates I've been on! It turns out he was just trying to be a little cheeky, but he apologized after I said it was a little forward of him. I guess it is just his sense of humour. I am actually going on a second date tonight!

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