nicka Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 I've got ED, did nothing, wife had EA ( though I think more), 4 counsellors and no joy, she says we are a mistake and have been from the beginning, she says she feels 'cheated out of life cos I can't get it up' - an ongoing problem on and off for 2-3 years, she won't try cialis etc. We have a 4yr old girl. i'm 48 in good shape and a 'nice' guy she's 38 I ask what she wants, she says she doesn't know. No sex for 9 months, I tried once but she pulled away. She always goes to bed in her pyjamas and only came back to the marital bed because I was so miserable that we were sleeping apart. I get a kiss goodbye in the morning but other than that no other physical contact. Other than that we get on fine. I don't trust her and she knows this, (after she confessed she was infatutaed with this guy the day after he dumped her). He is now the daddy of a kid with another girl. I think he was seeing both of them at the same time. We get on fine apart from the sex etc. Every day I think of leaving but every day I hope that something will change but it never does. all help appreciated.
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