shelovesyou Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 my ex left me nearly two months ago after a long term relationship for someone else. we've hardly spoke since. it seems from facebook that he is really trying with her, taking her on holiday and on day trips etcetc. is the grass really greener? our relationship was good, no arguments, a few disagreements and was very passionate. so, should i have hope that he'll come to his senses? what do you guys think?
sean1970 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 is the grass really greener? Regardless of hue, it still needs to be mowed...
Author shelovesyou Posted February 19, 2010 Author Posted February 19, 2010 Regardless of hue, it still needs to be mowed... what on earth...
USMCHokie Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Regardless of hue, it still needs to be mowed... This was....simply beautiful...
sean1970 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Translation... Does not matter that a relationship looks great from the outside, relationships are still work.
USMCHokie Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 what on earth... Sean's oh-so-eloquent statement meant that regardless of whether it's greener and less green for him, you eventually have to accept that it's time to cut him from your life... "Cut" and "mow" are synonyms!!! And "hue" is just a great word... EDIT: Damn...I was way off...but I'm sticking to my guns and say that sometimes it's better to start with a fresh lawn...?
sean1970 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Sean's oh-so-eloquent statement meant that regardless of whether it's greener and less green for him, you eventually have to accept that it's time to cut him from your life... "Cut" and "mow" are synonyms!!! And "hue" is just a great word... EDIT: Damn...I was way off...but I'm sticking to my guns and say that sometimes it's better to start with a fresh lawn...? Not a bad alternate USM...
Author shelovesyou Posted February 19, 2010 Author Posted February 19, 2010 it just doesnt seem fair that all his feelings have just gone. i mean i didnt imagine them, i saw him cry his eyes out breaking up with me. will they ever come back to him? in my heart im hoping that when his new relationship fails it will hit him
USMCHokie Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 it just doesnt seem fair that all his feelings have just gone. i mean i didnt imagine them, i saw him cry his eyes out breaking up with me. will they ever come back to him? in my heart im hoping that when his new relationship fails it will hit him His feelings never left...they are in there somewhere...maybe not as strong as they once were, but I assure you that he won't forget about you...it's just that new feelings have emerged that have pushed them aside in his mind... And what do you benefit from the feelings coming back to the forefront if his new relationship fails? Would you take back someone that left you for someone else? At this point, it shouldn't matter to you what hits him or doesn't hit him. It's up to you to start living your own life free from thoughts of him.
GrayClouds Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 it just doesnt seem fair that all his feelings have just gone. i mean i didnt imagine them, i saw him cry his eyes out breaking up with me. will they ever come back to him? in my heart im hoping that when his new relationship fails it will hit him What is fair is he is going to caring his baggage with him into the next relationship while you get to spend the post break time focusing on yourself and using it improve on the person you already are. As you do the more selective you get to be in letting quality men in your life. Originally Posted by sean1970 Regardless of hue, it still needs to be mowed... Unless they prefer it el natural
bananaboat11 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Regardless of hue, it still needs to be mowed... I shouldn't laugh, but LOL... regardless of hue. ha
sean1970 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 it just doesnt seem fair that all his feelings have just gone. i mean i didnt imagine them, i saw him cry his eyes out breaking up with me. will they ever come back to him? in my heart im hoping that when his new relationship fails it will hit him Why hope that you place second?
Author shelovesyou Posted February 19, 2010 Author Posted February 19, 2010 i know, i know fullwell i shouldnt be thinking about him but i am i feel like rubbish, just trash discarded. i know i should feel better by myself but i just want to knpow that i did mean something, that he does still think of me and still want me. stupid i know.
Dragon_Lady Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 As hard as this is for you right now keep in mind that should he finally "come to his senses" he's out there living life while you are not... how are you benefiting from that? Perhaps he may realize down the line that it was you he should have stayed with but then won't him being with another now hurt you later as well???
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