td0g03 Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 I just have simple question. My ex and I broke up, and I been going out and doing my own thing. Since I'm trying to do NC. I was wondering if I should hide/block my facebook from her. I try not to look at hers, but I'm not sure what I should do. My friends just post about wanting me to come out and party and etc and I'm not sure if it's more mature to hide them from her or just let her see it. (we ended the relationship because she refused to ever let me go out)
TaraMaiden Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 I don't think you can block her from seeing it. You can block her from messaging and being able to add something to your page, but I'm not sure about being able to stop her seeing anything....? Besides, if she's your ex- you really don't owe her anything - especially as this was the main reason you broke up in the first place. If she sees it - who cares? It's your life, not hers. What she thinks now, is completely immaterial....
jb89 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 I just have simple question. My ex and I broke up, and I been going out and doing my own thing. Since I'm trying to do NC. I was wondering if I should hide/block my facebook from her. I try not to look at hers, but I'm not sure what I should do. My friends just post about wanting me to come out and party and etc and I'm not sure if it's more mature to hide them from her or just let her see it. (we ended the relationship because she refused to ever let me go out) If you block her, she won't be able to access any part of your facebook. If she somehow is able to click on your name, it'll take her right back to her homepage
skydiveaddict Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Do anything you can do to avoid her. fb is poison for just this reason. I hate it. I would think you could certainly block her from your fb page, you just have to have the discipline to NEVER look @ her page
whichwayisup Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 You may not be ready to do this, but just do it if you can.. Delete her off your facebook. If you are worried about hurting her feelings, or think she will react and call you freaking out - Then leave her a simple message something like this, "Since we aren't a couple anymore, I think it would be best if we weren't on eachother FB, sorry if this hurts your feelings.." Or, if you don't care what she thinks, then just delete her. To give her limited access to your facebook is kind of silly. Either she has full access or nothing.
skydiveaddict Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 You may not be ready to do this, but just do it if you can.. Delete her off your facebook. If you are worried about hurting her feelings, or think she will react and call you freaking out - Then leave her a simple message something like this, "Since we aren't a couple anymore, I think it would be best if we weren't on eachother FB, sorry if this hurts your feelings.." Or, if you don't care what she thinks, then just delete her. To give her limited access to your facebook is kind of silly. Either she has full access or nothing. I agree anything you can do to avoid contact is a step foward
Dragon_Lady Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Go to Account > Profile Settings > Profile Information... If your Ex is not a Facebook Friend of yours there are many ways to block what can and can not be seen
Beolf Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 if you block someone on facebook its like you don't exist to them, and they don't exist to you. you won't see anything from them at all. the only thing left behind will be any priavte messages you exchanged, but you won't be able to click their name, and their picture does not show.
Ilovecake Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 I just have simple question. My ex and I broke up, and I been going out and doing my own thing. Since I'm trying to do NC. I was wondering if I should hide/block my facebook from her. I try not to look at hers, but I'm not sure what I should do. My friends just post about wanting me to come out and party and etc and I'm not sure if it's more mature to hide them from her or just let her see it. (we ended the relationship because she refused to ever let me go out) Yes you can block her from seeing your page. It's under privacy settings and then block list just type in her name. You will not be able to see or search for her page and she will not be able to search or see your page. Also if either one of you post on a mutual friend’s page you will not be able to see the other persons post. It’s like you don’t exist to each other on facebook. It's a great feature. I would however just start by deleting her as a friend and making your page private. Judging by your last sentence though I think you want her to see that you're having a great time and that's why you're keeping the page open to her. Am I right?
LostInLimbo Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 Do anything you can do to avoid her. fb is poison for just this reason. I hate it. I would think you could certainly block her from your fb page, you just have to have the discipline to NEVER look @ her page I agree with Skydiveaddict,,,FB is poison, I fell into disabling it, then enabling it, like a YoYo, but finally disabled it for good, as it brought somewhat of a closure to me, for me, like a big weight of my shoulder, only because the temptation was there for me, but not so much that, it was an open door to see what I was doing..... LiL
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