sunrae Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 So I walk in the gym today at lunch, guess who's there.. Yep my ex, signing up for a membership. He found out this past Friday(which was his last day on our route, so I thought I wouldnt see him again) that that is where I go after joking around with me to "watch out, you can get STD's from that place". There is another gym, the same franchise 2 miles from his house, and this location is not close to his work. So where there? Why now? I was in such shock, that I just said hey what are you doing here. He said he had the day off and was signing up. I was like, ok, enjoy your day off, and walked into the locker room... I so enjoyed the gym, that was my "me time".
sean1970 Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 So where there? Why now? Unless he moved, you know the answer to this... How are you going to handle it when he goes out of his way to make small talk with you when you are both there?
Author sunrae Posted February 18, 2010 Author Posted February 18, 2010 Unless he moved, you know the answer to this... How are you going to handle it when he goes out of his way to make small talk with you when you are both there? Move to the other side of the gym..lol. or turn my ipod up really loud. I'm assuming he 's going to keep his current work schedule, if that's the case I can still go at lunch time, since his new route is going to be to far for him to drive at to the gym during lunch... He works later than I do, so I can go after work, while he's still working. I enjoy going to the gym in the mornings, but if he starts coming in at that time, then Ill change to after work... No biggie for me. He's a nice guy, and I do like him, but he's the one who walked out and needed time.
Author sunrae Posted February 19, 2010 Author Posted February 19, 2010 Well at least he wasnt at the gym this morning. I hate the feeling of wondering if he's going to walk in or not. That stunk!
sean1970 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Well at least he wasnt at the gym this morning. I hate the feeling of wondering if he's going to walk in or not. That stunk! Not that it matters much anymore but Im glad mine lives 4 hours away...
USMCHokie Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 Ooh...sorry to hear, sunrae...I was afraid of a similar bump-in with the ex about a month or so ago when I had to go back to the gym that I joined with her that's right by her house...but I was only going there to cancel my membership...I hadn't realized that they had been charging me for like 3 months after I thought the membership was closed... Luckily she wasn't there... But it is kind of weird that he'd be doing this...guys are weird...
Author sunrae Posted February 19, 2010 Author Posted February 19, 2010 But it is kind of weird that he'd be doing this...guys are weird... Yeah, who knows, I'm not going to try to guess what's going through his noggin.. Guys are weird and women are crazy!
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