lizita14 Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 I met this guy a while ago and we talked on the phone all the time. We where making plans to go out but somehow my schedule or his was too busy and never ended up going out. Then all of the sudden he just stopped calling me...I called him back wondering what had happened but he never returned my calls. Anyway it has been almost a year and he just called me again I didn't answer him and he left a voicemail asking me to call him back and then he called me again yesterday two days in a row...should I even bother calling him back or should I blow him off like he did to me??? HELP PLEASE!!!
BackUpOrGetStung Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 Do you want to meet up with him or not? ...Figure that out, and act accordingly.
clueless24 Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 I would call him back just to show him you're not the kind of flake that he is and that you do respect people's time and efforts. As far as considering anything with him, NO NO NO...He's not worth your time anymore since you were insignificant to him a while ago. Good luck and update us =) And if you decide to call him, let us know of the reason why he just disappeared.
DustySaltus Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 He was with someone else, things didn't work out and now he's going through his rolodex to see who's out there. Whether or not you are ok with that is up to you. I think the first question you should ask him is why he reached out to you and play it out from there. Things fall through the cracks all the time, maybe it will be worth it....it's up to you. I think it's just important to see where his head is at. How did you meet him?
SOLACEMENT Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 It won't hurt... You don't know what may have went on with his life back than Just don't call him with any hopes... just let it work it self out...just play it cool ... no reason to let someones flakeness upset you...just live your life and if you want to call him..do so ... :-)
sugarmomma Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 I would call him back and see what he wants. As for anything more than that, I think this guy bears watching. Nothing wrong with just returning a call since it doesn't mean you want him. You can always say that you're not dating at the time if he asks you out and you don't want to go. I would also ask why now.
txsilkysmoothe Posted February 19, 2010 Posted February 19, 2010 It sounds like you both contributed to not actually going out before. Could he have stopped calling because he doubted you really wanted to go out? If yes, I don't see the harm in calling him back or even going out.
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