9Lives Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 i have finally decided to follow the advice of the experts and totally give up the rel, tomorrow my ex was wanting to get his stuff but he just text me and said he has to cancel and would let me know when he could come. i said okay but deep down inside i wish i could drop it off in front of his house so i dont have to deal with it anymore. its a washer and dryer. plus i dont like thay he had to chg his plans. im like lets get this over dammm!!! but I played it cool and said ok. I dont really have anything to say about it.
Sadbutrelieved Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 Mine's coming to get his stuff Saturday, and I wish I could just have it dropped off in front of his place too, but it's too much stuff. I've got a big muscular friend coming over for coffee and to hang out while he's here. He's funny and will keep me amused, and will also put up a brick wall between the ex and me so there's no chance we'll be talking about anything. Do you have someone who can be there with you when he does finally come over?
Author 9Lives Posted February 18, 2010 Author Posted February 18, 2010 im over it. I have learned from this forum. Let him come get it and be done with it. I dont want a explanation. I dont want to get into anything. Just get it and I will be fine. If he wants to make up, he will try but I know he wont. He just wants his stuff.
Enema Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 It's very rude for him to cancel. I would only let him come pick it up when I was home. If he "let me know when he could come" I would not hesitate to say "No" unless it was a good time for me. He doesn't make the rules.
skydiveaddict Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 (edited) [quote=9Lives;2663363 i said okay but deep down inside i wish i could drop it off in front of his house so i dont have to deal with it anymore. its a washer and dryer. plus i dont like thay he had to chg his plans. im like lets get this over dammm!!! but I played it cool and said ok. I dont really have anything to say about it. Get a couple of your guy friends to move them out on the curb. Then text you ex tellng him where his stuff is, after that it's up to him. this is HIS problem. Don't make it your's Edited February 18, 2010 by skydiveaddict
Author 9Lives Posted February 18, 2010 Author Posted February 18, 2010 It's very rude for him to cancel. I would only let him come pick it up when I was home. If he "let me know when he could come" I would not hesitate to say "No" unless it was a good time for me. He doesn't make the rules. It was rude i guess but you cant worry about it. So what!! He will asked me when it works for me again. Its no big deal. I'm not expecting anything
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