9Lives Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Hey I need some advice cause I think I may need to grow up some but I dont know. You know how you have your friend who have boyfriends or ex boyfriends who stress them out. Then when he comes back around...they dump you to be with the ex. Im perfectly fine with my girl being happy and all but I dont alway appreciate that when things get better you dont really communicate with me and when they are bad you always talking to me. What should my true expectations be of lady friends who have a man. I know she cant talk to me all the time and she is with her man now but you feel kinda used and left out sometimes. What are your thoughts?
and.then.some Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 What should my true expectations be of lady friends who have a man. I know she cant talk to me all the time and she is with her man now but you feel kinda used and left out sometimes. What are your thoughts? Get used to it. It's just what people do. However, if you notice *poor* treatment from your friend, then you probably should find a new one. If while back on with an ex, the friend becomes mean, indifferent, totally ignores you, or some other extreme, then that shows poor character on your friend's part. Otherwise, it's perfectly normal for a guy or girl in love to... forget that they actually know other people once in a while.
Author 9Lives Posted February 18, 2010 Author Posted February 18, 2010 Get used to it. It's just what people do. However, if you notice *poor* treatment from your friend, then you probably should find a new one. If while back on with an ex, the friend becomes mean, indifferent, totally ignores you, or some other extreme, then that shows poor character on your friend's part. Otherwise, it's perfectly normal for a guy or girl in love to... forget that they actually know other people once in a while. alrighty alrighty....somewhat annoying. I just dont want to hear the crying cause it dont mean anything. I guess I will be nice. I only have one friend who is mature enough to not treat me like that. the one ones are all into their no good men. I dont want to hear it.
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