theraven Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 So, I have recently been talking to this girl a lot. Things seem like they are going well but I don't really know if she likes me or not. I want her to know that I like her cause if she knows I like her, she will continue to talk to me if she likes me and stop talking to me if she doesn't like me, which is what I want cause that will get down to the point and make me not waste my time. I want her to know I like her, but avoid awkwardness. Do I just tell her that I like her? Or is there a better way I can do this...
Explorer Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 So, I have recently been talking to this girl a lot. Things seem like they are going well but I don't really know if she likes me or not. I want her to know that I like her cause if she knows I like her, she will continue to talk to me if she likes me and stop talking to me if she doesn't like me, which is what I want cause that will get down to the point and make me not waste my time. I want her to know I like her, but avoid awkwardness. Do I just tell her that I like her? Or is there a better way I can do this... Take a light approach. Ask if she wants to hang out and chat over a coffee/tea sometime. How old are you?
threebyfate Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 The easiest way to tell a woman you`re interested in her, is to ask her out on a date. This way, you don`t get friendzoned, hence wasting both your time. The sooner you find out she`s not interested, the sooner you can move your attentions onto someone who might be interested.
alphamale Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Do I just tell her that I like her? Or is there a better way I can do this... you take her out on dates and spend money on her then make some moves
Author theraven Posted February 18, 2010 Author Posted February 18, 2010 Thanks for the quick replies... I'm 19 by the way and a Freshman at the University of Texas.
Pizzaman81 Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 The easiest way to tell a woman you`re interested in her, is to ask her out on a date. This way, you don`t get friendzoned, hence wasting both your time. The sooner you find out she`s not interested, the sooner you can move your attentions onto someone who might be interested. Ya do that. However, there might be a select few girls who think of it not as a date, but just to hang out like friends do! YAY! Ignorant girls they are...
soulm8 Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 you take her out on dates and then make some moves Raven, ^^^ that is the only way to go. Don't waste your time hanging out or having coffee, etc. Be confident in yourself and let her know you are attracted to her (in a non-creepy way) Good luck!
threebyfate Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 Ya do that. However, there might be a select few girls who think of it not as a date, but just to hang out like friends do! YAY! Ignorant girls they are...That`s why it`s important for men to ensure that the women know they`re out on a date and not just out for coffee with a friend. Ambiguity gets you ambiguity.
Explorer Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 That`s why it`s important for men to ensure that the women know they`re out on a date and not just out for coffee with a friend. Ambiguity gets you ambiguity. But you should be able to gauge a woman's reaction if you were to ask her to hang out casually (Coffee) as to whether or not she's interested. That way you eliminate the risk of rejection and you still salvage whatever relationship existed prior to asking her to hang out (Assuming you wanted to). If you're not good at picking up signals, then you should definetly just go in for the kill and just ask her out.
counterman Posted February 18, 2010 Posted February 18, 2010 How does he erase any ambiguity? Use the word "date" when asking her out? I would just ask her out for coffee and go from there. Have a fun time, get to know her, flirt a little and then, if you're still unsure, tell her "I like you;)". You'll get your answer for sure then.
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