Blue6 Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 3 months and some change later and I am still pretty bent out of shape about losing the relationship. It lasted just about a year before LD ensued and ended after 2 months of LD trial. I hate that I still find the need to talk about it after I have exhausted all my energy for the last 90 days going over it again and again and again. I am concerned that my inability to heal will continue for a quite a while as I did not get closure at the time of break up and when I surprising ran into her a month ago and got the same cold shoulder. I find myself drifting to a year ago when I was as happy as I have ever been because I was with the one girl who made feel things I never felt before. This feeling happened naturally, I wasn't yearning for it. Simply put, I don't know how to move forward and get over someone I wasn't done loving and evidentially still do.
skydiveaddict Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Simply put, I don't know how to move forward and get over someone I wasn't done loving and evidentially still do. By doing just that. Move forward. I'm where you are right now too. I'm still in love too. Just try not to have contact with her, keep busy, hit the gym, explore new things/hobbies where you will meet new people. Of course, as always I recommend skydiving. This kind of wound can only be healed by time.
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