stanlovesJ Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 ok so it was winter break , and i was coming off kind of a hangover from marijuana ..i would stay up late everyday i was on weed , well i only had one joint, but following that i stayed up for like 3 days straight.. i think she might be mad at me for making her feel awkward when i came to school , high and drunk(when i dated her). i would slap her butt, touch her , etc. anyways i started messaging this one girl i dated about 8 months ago, and i was saying some really absurd and rude things to her... then i would write im sorry ,, blah blah blah, and most of the messages were sexual so i dont think she was comfortable reading them... then she thought i was going to stalk her , so she called the cops on me because her friend told me i scared her..the police charged me with cyberstalking (25 hours community service) long story short, if i write a sincere apolgy letter focusing on her feelings, not my desires is there any luck in fixing this huge mistake, and possibly going out on a date"? i have been trying to make a blueprint of the letter using Dale Carnegie's book "how to win friends and influence people"
TaraMaiden Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 :laugh: Is this for real.....?? Women, huh? Instead of Dale Carnegie's book, I'd focus on "how to get good grades in High School, and quit being a Jerk". I'm sure there's a book out there somewhere to fit your profile. Chapter one is about how only losers smoke weed. Chapter two is about how only losers treat women like crap. Chapter three is about..... But I'm sure you get the picture, sonny......
Author stanlovesJ Posted February 17, 2010 Author Posted February 17, 2010 well i understand that , but i havent really got over her yet you know? but what if use a mutual friend and i get her viewpoint on this ? like what exactly she thinks? because i didnt mean to send those messagse... i really didnt i was just so messed up and i dont remember why i wrote half the stuff.
TaraMaiden Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Forget her. She doesn't want to know. Getting the cops on you, throwing a charge at you and letting it proceed to a community service order should be a big enough hint. Focus on improving yourself. Stop taking drugs. It's not clever, it can lead to paranoia and other social disorders, so you being an utter jerk could be for that reason. She really doesn't think you're worth even looking at. And at this moment - I think she may be right. Discipline yourself to stop being an idiot. The rest may follow.
mansquito Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 well i understand that , but i havent really got over her yet you know? but what if use a mutual friend and i get her viewpoint on this ? like what exactly she thinks? Using my magical powers of telepathy, I will tell you exactly what she and her friend are thinking: "Get the hell away from us, creep."
samsungxoxo Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Is this a troll looking for entertainment or a real story? If this is real then you have to leave her alone because calling someone absurd names online when they want nothing to do with you is stalking behavior. Anyways you're not going to get her because she's thinking of the worst. She and her friends consider you a sick creep and no women likes that.
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