I plan to use the next guy I date

[USMCHokie]

I see what you're saying and you're right. But most any man would see right through it, dont you think so too?

 

 

Not necessarily...the ones that are worthy of marriage due to their awesomeness will see right through it, but the losers and "nice guys" of this world will eat it up...

[Stockalone]

Screw him. He deserves to be hurt because he needs to be punished by what guys did to ME.

 

lol i wouldnt marry him but me and my friends and allot of women do things like that

 

We call it TAODUG'ing[take advantage of desperate ugly guys]

 

Get them to buy us gifts meals and see how far we can go with it till we leave

 

Well, you better hope that you never meet a man who thinks it's okay to cut up your presumably pretty faces after you dump him. That would really be a shame...

[Don'tWannabeAWannabe]

Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy.

 

I should have done this years ago.

 

[Seymore]

Not necessarily...the ones that are worthy of marriage due to their awesomeness will see right through it, but the losers and "nice guys" of this world will eat it up...

 

Come on, man...grouping the losers with the nice guys? There are plenty of awesome "nice guys" out there. We're just not all as perceptive. Not EVERY guy has "heard it all", you know...

[2sunny]

Only they won't get sex unless I get something out of it (and this won't happen unless he has money).

 

from your own words written - congratulations! ... you have now joined the group of women who give sex for money.

 

how are you going to look yourself in the mirror and like what you see? how will you be proud of what you have become?

 

i'm not judging - everyone is entitled to their own thoughts and conscience... just be clear of what you are about to do to yourself in doing this.

[BUENG1]

Most golddigers either have sex, or are charming, and are not angry psychopaths.

[boogieboy]

I had to bold this because I said the same thing but its more succinct.

 

Here's an idea. After venting your anger on a bunch of unsuspecting men stops being fun, maybe spend some time alone and try to figure out why you keep choosing losers.

[Sharla]

I think you could use a nice day with your hands...and maybe some ice cream?

 

[greatgirlfriend]

Great. Does that mean the next girl that comes around deserves to have her heart broken because of other women completely irrelevant to her? You're in a completely irrational frame of mind.

 

Yes, because that's exactly why my heart is being broken now, because of some gold digger who took advantage of the guy I like, the guy who was into me many years ago.

[greatgirlfriend]

Let me quote your words from another forum:

 

 

 

Perhaps you are saying you were a believer in casual sex, but lacked the opportunity?

 

In any case, I am firm in my belief that you are, indeed, a man. I suggest that you go to a place such as Vermont or Ontario where same-sex marriages are legal. Hopefully, you will find the man of your dreams there so that you can then try to ruin him.

 

No, I had casual sex, but do not anymore and haven't for years.

[greatgirlfriend]

So tomorrow I am going out with one of my targets. He asked for a nice restaurant and I told him about the lobster restaurant around here and that I expect lobster. In the meantime another guy emailed me and suggested Applebees but I laughed at that.

[USMCHokie]

So tomorrow I am going out with one of my targets. He asked for a nice restaurant and I told him about the lobster restaurant around here and that I expect lobster. In the meantime another guy emailed me and suggested Applebees but I laughed at that.

 

 

So I guess Taco Bell is out of the question...?

[Hot Carl]

Silly girl. You think you actually have it in you to be so cold. You'll fall for one of these guys and then you'll be back at square one.

[You'reasian]

So tomorrow I am going out with one of my targets. He asked for a nice restaurant and I told him about the lobster restaurant around here and that I expect lobster. In the meantime another guy emailed me and suggested Applebees but I laughed at that.

 

Red Lobster?

 

Have fun! lol

[skydiveaddict]

So I guess Taco Bell is out of the question...?

 

 

Why would you think that? I've seen very high priced burritos in there, and it's especially romantic when you're sitting there and somebody comes around mopping the floor while you're trying to eat. If that isnt romance I dont know what is

Edited February 17, 2010 by skydiveaddict

[greatgirlfriend]

No, an actual seafood restaurant. I'd never date any type of guy who took me to Taco Bell for a date.

 

Yes, I am badly hurting. He's one who wanted me for years, then I wanted him and he's still hurting because another girl did to him what I plan on doing to other guys.

[USMCHokie]

Why would you think that? I've seen very high priced burritos in there, and it's especially romantic when you're sitting there and somebody comes around mopping the floor while you're trying to eat. If that isnt romance I dont know what is

 

 

Good point. And I can even show my chivalry and gentlemanliness by refilling her Mountain Dew!

 

FTW.

[Seymore]

Yes, because that's exactly why my heart is being broken now, because of some gold digger who took advantage of the guy I like, the guy who was into me many years ago.

 

So you're going to stoop to the gold digger's level? You're already laughing at Applebees, so I guess you're well on your way.

[skydiveaddict]

Good point. And I can even show my chivalry and gentlemanliness by refilling her Mountain Dew!

 

FTW.

 

 

Yes but dont silp on the recently mooped floor on your way. Date killer for sure. Slipped on greasy wet floor = no second date

[greatgirlfriend]

So you're going to stoop to the gold digger's level? You're already laughing at Applebees, so I guess you're well on your way.

 

I go to Applebees but I want a guy to spend a lot. I was never this way before and look where it got me. Gold diggers are why the guy I like doesn't want a relationship. Maybe he'll get over it, but maybe not.

[Lindarose84]

wow greatgirlfriend, you are really hurting aren't you? dating is hard for EVERYONE. I mean, look at Jennifer Aniston. She's beautiful and successful with an amazing body and great personality and she still can't catch a break and she's 41. If people like her (and there are tons of others) can't land a guy, it kind of makes you think that there is something to the sentiment that everyone has been telling you- dating is hard!

 

If I had a dime for all the times I've been screwed over, I'd own a small island by now. I'm smart, successful, very attractive but my dating life still sucks. But I don't sit around blaming everyone (God, my parents, my priest, the busboy at TGIFridays, the garbagemen at work, my cat, etc) for my mistakes in dating. The common denominator in all of my failed relationships was ME. It's just the same for YOU. I choose the wrong men. Methinks you are doing the same.

 

Please for the love of God, stop and just cry and hurt and let the pain overcome you. Heal and move on from this. You're only digging yourself into more hurt by thinking screwing over other guys is the answer to your problems...

[Phateless]

Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy.

 

I should have done this years ago.

 

I'm begging you not to stoop that low... It's only a perpetuating cycle.

[Twenty-ten]

Silly girl. You think you actually have it in you to be so cold. You'll fall for one of these guys and then you'll be back at square one.

 

 

Hot Carl you say the best stuff sometimes! If you were on Twitter I'd be a follower.

 

 

 

Greatgirlfriend, you are clearly going through an anger phase and that's understandable. Ride it out, alone! You don't need to "use" men, what you need is to deal with this anger in a more constructive way, not by dumping it on other men. That will never satisfy you, it will leave you feeling emptier and even worse. Putting a bandaid on what you are feeling right now will not cure the cut it will make it deeper. Using men like this will only mess you up more in the long run, why in the world would want to do that to yourself?

 

This isn't about some poor sap online it is about you.

 

Knock it off now, I demand it! (for your own good) I know you are just kidding around here. You are better than this.

[angelaM]

Good point. And I can even show my chivalry and gentlemanliness by refilling her Mountain Dew!

 

 

I love men who do things like this. And I'm not kidding. Even better if you sneak in a little bottle of something to spice up the Dew. But that's another topic for another day.

[skydiveaddict]

I love men who do things like this. And I'm not kidding. Even better if you sneak in a little bottle of something to spice up the Dew. But that's another topic for another day.

 

 

Yeah, until they slip on the greasy wet floor. Then all bets are off. admit it