I plan to use the next guy I date

[AD1980]

Hopefully he gives you herpes

 

You're a selfish awful human being

[greatgirlfriend]

To be fair, it's not really punishing the guy who hurt you, is it? It's punishing some unsuspecting soul because of what someone else did.

 

Heck, I should have thought of that ages ago! Saved me an awful lot of time, and hurt, plus free meals, presents? What girl in their right mind would argue with that? Where do we find such fools though?

 

But it's still a man, and a man needs to be punished. I plan on doing it to many men.

[harmfulsweetz]

Believe me, they're all over the place

 

 

Goodie! I'm on the hunt!

 

Any tell-tale signs I oughta look for? I don't wanna be catching those who just look desperate and foolish now do I?

 

 

greatgirlfriend, you can't hurt innocent people because someone else hurt you. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, better luck next time, but what's the point wasting time on people just to get revenge on one entire gender? Like they would care anyway.

[txsilkysmoothe]

Men have to be taught a lesson. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want anyone else. This is their punishment for doing all their trash to me. Screw all men who took advantage because my victim will get it in spades.

 

First, we'll meet then I'll tell them only fancy restaurants will do. Of course they will pay for the meal and I'll order expensive. Then I'll tell them I expect presents. You get the idea. Several months later I'll tell them that if they want sex they have to buy me a nice engagement ring otherwise I won't stay. These guys will pay for the ones who screwed me over. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me.

 

Wasn't this the plot of a made-for-tv movie?

[greatgirlfriend]

oh wow! You want me to go fish out the threads? Even you know that's a stretch!

 

No, two weeks ago he said he wanted to take it slow. Much different than he wants to be friends.

[harmfulsweetz]

But it's still a man, and a man needs to be punished. I plan on doing it to many men.

 

 

Sounds like a plan.

 

Is the man-hating getting you anywhere though? What, when you go to bed at night, will you actually feel? Accomplished? Proud? Or more miserable than before? I bet it's the last, you will only feel as good as long as it lasts, then you will hit a low because using people is low. Especially people you don't know, and who could actually be pretty decent guys. Why not try and spend the time getting to know one of these guys, for real, and see if you like them?

[greatgirlfriend]

Hopefully he gives you herpes

 

You're a selfish awful human being

 

I don't plan on sleeping with the guy unless I fool him into asking me to marry him. Maybe not even then (and I'll pawn the ring and dump him anyway).

[skydiveaddict]

Hopefully he gives you herpes

 

You're a selfish awful human being

 

 

No she's not . She's hurting

[AD1980]

I don't plan on sleeping with the guy unless I fool him into asking me to marry him. Maybe not even then (and I'll pawn the ring and dump him anyway).

 

Judging you're personality by this post and how Men want nothing to do with you for the long term i doubt you will ever get that far..

 

Youll be long dumped before it gets to that point lkie you usually do

[greatgirlfriend]

Sounds like a plan.

 

Is the man-hating getting you anywhere though? What, when you go to bed at night, will you actually feel? Accomplished? Proud? Or more miserable than before? I bet it's the last, you will only feel as good as long as it lasts, then you will hit a low because using people is low. Especially people you don't know, and who could actually be pretty decent guys. Why not try and spend the time getting to know one of these guys, for real, and see if you like them?

 

No such thing as decent guys. I thought the one I liked was decent so obviously if he's not decent, no such thing.

[AD1980]

No she's not . She's hurting

 

If a dude made a post like this hed get fried..Everyone gets hurt but to say you're gona screw innocent people over and laugh at em because some guy left you?

[EYECANDY000]

i think this is all for attention. this thread shouldnt be entertained any further..

 

you think you got it bad girlie, dating is hard for almost everyone..

[TheWatcher]

If a dude made a post like this he'd get fried..Everyone gets hurt but to say you're gonna screw innocent people over and laugh at em because some guy left you?

 

Totally agree.

[saintbede]

greatgirlfriend, in the space of two weeks, you have gone from being a good person who is always there for others and who would never cheat nor take advantage into a person who claims that, because one guy does not want to marry you, you want to find some other person, deceive them, and then marry them with the express intent of making his life miserable.

I would also caution you against thinking pregnancy (especially age 39) is easy. It is much more likely you will have a special-needs baby than when you were younger. Please think carefully before you bring a child into the world. A special-needs baby will take up a LOT of your time and you need to know what you are getting into.

Are you sure marriage is something you actually want? Many married people I know at your

age are either miserable, or in a nasty divorce. One of my friends is about to have her house taken and have to pay her ex $$ for the rest of her life because her lawyer forgot to file 1 piece of paper. She is in her 50s. I don't think you want that to be your story in your 50s.

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On February 2, 2010, greatgirlfriend said:

It stinks being single

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In my 20's I was reluctant to ever get married. I was pursuing a career and didn't find anyone I truly wanted to marry. Now I wish I had because I am 39 and still single. I feel like God played a cruel joke on me. I'd gladly give up my career that I worked hard for just to find a good guy since it seems so many don't want career women. The one guy I want is playing games with me and is hurting me terribly. Everyone I know is married. Not me. I'll likely be single the rest of my life because apparently I don't deserve better.

I am a good person and always there for others. I'd never cheat, nag or take advantage. Yet for some reason I have to be punished and I don't know why. I didn't do anything to deserve still being single. I know rotten people married but not me. I hate my life.

 

On February 16, 2010, greatgirlfriend said:

I plan to use the next guy I date

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Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy.

I should have done this years ago.

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[skydiveaddict]

If a dude made a post like this hed get fried..Everyone gets hurt but to say you're gona screw innocent people over and laugh at em because some guy left you?

 

 

 

True I admit

[txsilkysmoothe]

If a dude made a post like this hed get fried..Everyone gets hurt but to say you're gona screw innocent people over and laugh at em because some guy left you?

 

Agreed!!!!

[greatgirlfriend]

I do have it bad. Most of the guys I dated were evil. And yes men deserve to get this back. They do it all the time to women so this is a taste of their medicine. I am chatting with a couple of prospective guys now and I emailed them my photo. They are ugly guys and appear desperate so this will be fun.

[Johnny M]

Instead of dating, you should seek psychiatric help. It sounds like you really need it, Ms. Notsogreatgirlfriend.

 

It seems like the guy who decided to stay "friends" with you dodged a major bullet.

[Seymore]

After what men did to me, they deserve it back in spades.

 

The men that hurt YOU, yes. You're going to foul up and hurt a guy who had nothing to do with your pain and could give you the world, but you're going to screw it up with that attitude. That's completely unfair.

[Lizzie60]

I do have it bad. Most of the guys I dated were evil. And yes men deserve to get this back. They do it all the time to women so this is a taste of their medicine. I am chatting with a couple of prospective guys now and I emailed them my photo. They are ugly guys and appear desperate so this will be fun.

 

Could be fun while it's 'online'... methink you won't find it as amusing when you're face to face with the guy...

[Kamille]

Yeah well I agree with you guys. Greatgirlfriend is hurting but chooses to blame an entire gender for her pain.

 

The guy she is talking about told her just yesterday that he couldn't imagine himself falling in love with her or anyone ever. So hopefully this is just a one-night anger stage phase and she won't actually turn this into an actual philosophy.

 

People on LS have been telling her throughout the relationship that she should walk away from a guy who's been telling her from very early on that he only wanted to be friends. (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219538/)

[greatgirlfriend]

greatgirlfriend, in the space of two weeks, you have gone from being a good person who is always there for others and who would never cheat nor take advantage into a person who claims that, because one guy does not want to marry you, you want to find some other person, deceive them, and then marry them with the express intent of making his life miserable.

I would also caution you against thinking pregnancy (especially age 39) is easy. It is much more likely you will have a special-needs baby than when you were younger. Please think carefully before you bring a child into the world. A special-needs baby will take up a LOT of your time and you need to know what you are getting into.

Are you sure marriage is something you actually want? Many married people I know at your

age are either miserable, or in a nasty divorce. One of my friends is about to have her house taken and have to pay her ex $$ for the rest of her life because her lawyer forgot to file 1 piece of paper. She is in her 50s. I don't think you want that to be your story in your 50s.

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On February 2, 2010, greatgirlfriend said:

It stinks being single

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In my 20's I was reluctant to ever get married. I was pursuing a career and didn't find anyone I truly wanted to marry. Now I wish I had because I am 39 and still single. I feel like God played a cruel joke on me. I'd gladly give up my career that I worked hard for just to find a good guy since it seems so many don't want career women. The one guy I want is playing games with me and is hurting me terribly. Everyone I know is married. Not me. I'll likely be single the rest of my life because apparently I don't deserve better.

I am a good person and always there for others. I'd never cheat, nag or take advantage. Yet for some reason I have to be punished and I don't know why. I didn't do anything to deserve still being single. I know rotten people married but not me. I hate my life.

 

On February 16, 2010, greatgirlfriend said:

I plan to use the next guy I date

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Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy.

I should have done this years ago.

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At the age of 40 the chances of having a special needs kid is 1 in 100. Pretty good odds. Good, then I'll have a special needs kids and give it to the guy to raise. He'll definitely be punished the rest of his life.

[Johnny M]

No she's not . She's hurting

No, she's what we call a DD (desperate and dumb). If 'the one' saw this thread, I bet he'd be having a good laugh at her expense

[saintbede]

At the age of 40 the chances of having a special needs kid is 1 in 100. Pretty good odds. Good, then I'll have a special needs kids and give it to the guy to raise. He'll definitely be punished the rest of his life.

 

The non-residential parent pays child support to the parent who is taking care of the child.

 

Worse yet, child support for special-needs children never ends, as the child is always a dependent. You'd literally be paying for the rest of your life.

 

You either have to face paying your ex-husband indefinitely, or taking care of a special needs child indefinitely. (This is the same choice every parent, especially those who have children later in life, must face.) The risk definitely goes up once you are in your 40s. Look at Sarah Palin's youngest baby.

[DustySaltus]

At the age of 40 the chances of having a special needs kid is 1 in 100. Pretty good odds. Good, then I'll have a special needs kids and give it to the guy to raise. He'll definitely be punished the rest of his life.

 

Damn, some guy really did a number on you didn't they?