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greatgirlfriend Established Member

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Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy.

 

I should have done this years ago.

soulm8 Established Member

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Woof! This is precisely why it is difficult to find love. People get hurt and feel justified to hurt others instead of dusting themselves off and trying again... after reflecting upon what went wrong.

 

Seriously woman, what satisfaction are you going to get from acting like a spoiled brat? I promise you, it won't feel good.

SOLACEMENT Established Member

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And you are how old?...Too old to have that idea in your head...sad sad

Best of luck

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After what men did to me, they deserve it back in spades. They are all evil so it's best to hurt someone like I've been hurt. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want others, so they deserve to be hurt. I can't wait. Right now I am looking at profiles of guys who look desperate. They are going to get theirs.

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Keep us update.. that should be interesting.. ;)

 

Men use women for sex.. women use men for money... fair!

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After what men did to me, they deserve it back in spades. They are all evil so it's best to hurt someone like I've been hurt. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want others, so they deserve to be hurt. I can't wait. Right now I am looking at profiles of guys who look desperate. They are going to get theirs.

 

I urge you to go look at yourself in the mirror, right now. Have a good cry and adjust your attitude.

 

No one is ENTITLED to love. It's a gift.

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Keep us update.. that should be interesting.. ;)

 

Men use women for sex.. women use men for money... fair!

 

Only they won't get sex unless I get something out of it (and this won't happen unless he has money).

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Since I won't get the guy I want (at least for now) I've decided my next tactic will be to use the next guy. Get him right away to spend money on me. We go out? He buys everything. This will work especially with not so attractive guys. If he has money I'll have fun using him. Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant. Sure, I may not love him, but if he's stupid enough to go with this, then he deserves all the terrible he can get. Then he'll likely never want to date again after I cheat on him with some hot guy.

 

I should have done this years ago.

 

 

wow. Glad i'm not gonna be that poor guy.

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Don't flatter yourself, honey.

Kamille Established Member

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You're angry. I always go through an angry phase after a heartbreak. I usually get angry at the specific guy who broke my heart and not all men.

 

I hope for you that this is just a phase in your healing process.

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:lmao: This sounds like a plan.

 

Seriously, I wouldn't do it. What good will come of it? What will you learn? That you too are capable of using and hurting someone? The best revenge is a life well lived. We all feel this way from time to time, but put it into something constructive.

 

Although, do keep us updated, this could be very interesting. :laugh:

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Only they won't get sex unless I get something out of it (and this won't happen unless he has money).

 

So, you want to be a prostitute...

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greatgirlfriend Established Member

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Men have to be taught a lesson. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want anyone else. This is their punishment for doing all their trash to me. Screw all men who took advantage because my victim will get it in spades.

 

First, we'll meet then I'll tell them only fancy restaurants will do. Of course they will pay for the meal and I'll order expensive. Then I'll tell them I expect presents. You get the idea. Several months later I'll tell them that if they want sex they have to buy me a nice engagement ring otherwise I won't stay. These guys will pay for the ones who screwed me over. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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I should have done this years ago.

 

 

Actually, I'm fed up w/relationships that never work also. I think I know how you feel.

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You better be smoking hot or else your plan is going to fail miserably...

skydiveaddict Established Member

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Men have to be taught a lesson. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me.

 

 

Some men to be sure. But I learned mine a long time ago

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Men have to be taught a lesson. If I can't have the one I want, I don't want anyone else. This is their punishment for doing all their trash to me. Screw all men who took advantage because my victim will get it in spades.

 

First, we'll meet then I'll tell them only fancy restaurants will do. Of course they will pay for the meal and I'll order expensive. Then I'll tell them I expect presents. You get the idea. Several months later I'll tell them that if they want sex they have to buy me a nice engagement ring otherwise I won't stay. These guys will pay for the ones who screwed me over. It's also punishing God because of what he did to me.

 

To be fair, it's not really punishing the guy who hurt you, is it? It's punishing some unsuspecting soul because of what someone else did.

 

Heck, I should have thought of that ages ago! Saved me an awful lot of time, and hurt, plus free meals, presents? What girl in their right mind would argue with that? :lmao: Where do we find such fools though? :confused:

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So, you want to be a prostitute...

No she is only going to have sex in exchange for money...Not a prostitute at all

Kamille Established Member

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sigh... I feel the need to point out that 'the one' you can't get told you months ago that he didn't want a relationship. You chose to hang on in the hopes that he would change his mind. surprise, he meant what he said.

 

Sooo.... The part where you take responsibility for your decisions (instead of blaming men and God), when does that happen?

 

Cause, see, once you accept to take a part of the responsibility, you can actually learn from your heartbreak.

 

Oh, I know, don't get angry at men, just get angry at me for relentlessly holding you accountable for your choices.

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Luckily, I am very attractive. However, when it comes to ugly guys even average girls will work. I am looking forward to this. Then I will laugh at them. I like the idea of marrying them, then divorcing and getting money. Really screw them over.

skydiveaddict Established Member

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Where do we find such fools though? :confused:

 

 

Believe me, they're all over the place

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sigh... I feel the need to point out that 'the one' you can't get told you months ago that he didn't want a relationship. You chose to hang on in the hopes that he would change his mind. surprise, he meant what he said.

 

Sooo.... The part where you take responsibility for your decisions (instead of blaming men and God), when does that happen?

 

Cause, see, once you accept to take a part of the responsibility, you can actually learn from your heartbreak.

 

Oh, I know, don't get angry at men, just get angry at me for relentlessly holding you accountable for your choices.

 

The one I want only told me last week he didn't want a relationship, after he asked me to be his girlfriend and date him exclusively.

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Meanwhile he'll get no sex. Or if he does get sex it'll be because I've decided I want to marry him or get pregnant.

 

 

wow you are willing to do all of this to prove a point?

Kamille Established Member

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The one I want only told me last week he didn't want a relationship, after he asked me to be his girlfriend and date him exclusively.

oh wow! You want me to go fish out the threads? Even you know that's a stretch!

soulm8 Established Member

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It's also punishing God because of what he did to me.

 

:lmao: Ok then!

 

Ya know... I'm sitting here and thinking about how often men tell me that I'm the sanest person they've met online. :lmao:

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