nobmagnet Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I am so sorry. I sooooooo understand there are peeps on here that really do deseve a hug more than me. I have no-one to call. im all at sea. its not life threatening but im so scared. You see it was planned he went i had some money when the house sold.....its fallen tro and he is all ****ty and im screwed again. im scared really am again.oh have 3 kids and i dont know my future........again. :(:( what am i asking??no idea. im sorry Nobby xx
sunrae Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Nobby, ((((((((((((((( Big Hug ))))))))))))))))))))))))) You're not alone, you have us.
Ilovecake Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Just take a few very deep breaths and calm down. When you feel calmer make a list of the all the things you need to do to keep your head above water. Do the most important and the easiest things you can right now. You are lucky because you have the internet. You can reach out to us for moral support and you have an unlimited amount of info out there that will help you with the day to day stuff like selling the house. Once you start doing that you’ll have less time to have him on your mind. Your kids are probably having a hard time too right now, you need to keep it together for them.
angelaM Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 You will be OK, your kids will be fine, you will get through this one step at a time. Remember you are a fighter, you have been through bumps in the road before, and you've come through just fine. You are the same strong woman you were yesterday. Just take it steady, take a long hot bath, give your kids some extra hugs. You still have each other and you will make it through together. (((((HUGS)))))
Author nobmagnet Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 oh my thank you all! so much really much. im sorry really but oh my you make me feel not alone...........xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
HeavenOrHell Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Big ((((((hugs))))) neet, hope you're ok honey, talk soon xxx
Author nobmagnet Posted February 17, 2010 Author Posted February 17, 2010 2 hours with my big bro..................well am I just the most stupid daft unibraincell human ever. YES i am ugh nobby (hate me)no sympathy reqired im a tit
curiousnycgirl Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 well am I just the most stupid daft unibraincell human ever. YES i am ugh nobby (hate me)no sympathy reqired im a tit No you are neither! We are here for you (although I appear to be quite late to the pity party) and we all know how it feels. Glad you've perked up.
GrayClouds Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 850 posts ugh acturally 851...149 more and you get pick between the toaster oven or a set of steak knives. But be assured the knives are quite dull and the toaster oven is no where big enough to stick ones head in Hang in there nobby
sedgwick Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 You see it was planned he went i had some money when the house sold.....its fallen tro I'm not sure what this means! Can you explain? Nobody "deserves" hugs more than anyone else. It sounds like you could really use some group therapy, so you'd at least have others to talk to. Are there any groups in your area?
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