tnourdin Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 hello. this is my first time participating is such forums so excuse my confusion. the problem is simply in my mind and feelings. i've been happily married for 12 years now and i can't trust my lovely husband. whenever he travels i keep thinking about the issue. i feel i will gradually destroy the relationship if i don't change my attitude. help me please
New Again Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Is there any particular reason you don't trust him? In other words, has he done something in the past, or is your untrusting attitude because you're insecure or something?
Author tnourdin Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 he's done nothing at all, but i think i'm afraid of loosing him since i lost my father because my parents were divorced when i was only 1 year old. and i keep hearing about infidility between marriages. i don't know if this is the problem, but i need a solution
whichwayisup Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Has he given you any reason to be suspicious? If not, then somehow you need to relax and try your best to have faith. Have you considered seeking therapy to help you with your issues? It could help.
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 Why are you insecure about your husband traveling, he hasnt done anything wrong before. why now? Why are you letting the past with your famly ruin your life?
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