chloe1408 Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 its been 2 months since my long term ex left me for someone else. everyone says he probably left the relationship long ago but, call me naive, i think its his way of justification. i still love him intensly. im not a wreck anymore, i have a life, see my friends and have attempted to date (decided it was too soon so am now trying to be single and happy) why do i miss him so much? i feel such hate towards him and his new girlfriend yet at the same time intense sadness. i want him to come back, not because i want to go through everything ive just been through, but because i want him to hurt. For him to miss me as much as ive missed him Help
USMCHokie Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 its been 2 months since my long term ex left me for someone else. everyone says he probably left the relationship long ago but, call me naive, i think its his way of justification. i still love him intensly. im not a wreck anymore, i have a life, see my friends and have attempted to date (decided it was too soon so am now trying to be single and happy) why do i miss him so much? i feel such hate towards him and his new girlfriend yet at the same time intense sadness. i want him to come back, not because i want to go through everything ive just been through, but because i want him to hurt. For him to miss me as much as ive missed him Help Is doing that really going to help in the end? I know you are hurting and want him to see and feel how you've been feeling recently, but this won't accomplish anything. And I know you're a better person than that to want someone to come back just so you can kick dirt in their face like they did to you. This stuff takes time...sometimes a long time...but you're taking the right steps to moving on...spending time with friends and family...having a life, as you call it...if you don't feel like you want to date, then good on you...you're saving yourself and anyone you would otherwise be dating from getting hurt later on...now is the time to have fun being yourself (or figuring out who "yourself" really is) You miss him so much because he was such a major part of your life for so long. It will naturally take time to readjust your life and your mind to have to live without that piece of the puzzle...but it does happen and you will get better...I know it sucks...
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