abdellost Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Why does everything THINK** A girl would leave a guy because she has someone else in her mind or planned to be with someone before the break up? I do agree, to a certain extend of course. But for example, my story had issues and stress related problems and a lot of things would be going on ( we would be caging each other without noticing it, or do things that we would end up feeling guilty doing like fooling around, before marriage and such). But each thread i created asking for help or anything, i would get answers along the same lines as "she was with someone else without you knowing it", "she wants to be with someone else so she lied and broke it off","she planned this out from the start, slowly de-attaching herself and just broke it off and now is probably with someone else". I just don't get how a girl is all over u, crying cause she misses you and cant live without you, then a small argument that had to do with each others different point of view in life, then a break up, would justify that she is with someone else. Yea, how she broke it off was crazy and weird, but knowing her, she does stuff without ever considering the consequences or without thinking through. She had this problem with attacking issues in a very wrong way. I dunno, why would everyone (i mean everyone in this Forum), think a girl left a guy for another guy? shouldn't it be the girls are more loyal than us, the men?
iheartboobs Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 As a rule, women feel a need to be in a relationship, so usually they'll check out of one relationship mentally, find another man, and then check out physically... it's just how they do things. Now, this isn't the case 100% of the time... my wife left me a few weeks ago and I honestly believe it had nothing to do with another man (it was pretty much 90-95% my fault), and I still believe there's no other man even though it's certainly possible because she's gorgeous and has never lacked for possible suitors.
Sadbutrelieved Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 That's exactly what my ex-BF did to me...checked out mentally, found another victim, then checked out physically . He can't face me because he knows he's a douche for doing it that way.
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Men do it, women do it....this behavior is not gender specific. It has to do with the individual, their own character. I think when people (men or women) get heartbroken or badly hurt they tend to rant against the other sex. I know I am guilty of that. The guy who broke my heart did that. Kept me until he had his next lined up then disappeared into the night. Loyalty is a personal trait, people either have it or not.
Perhaps Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I dunno, why would everyone (i mean everyone in this Forum), think a girl left a guy for another guy? shouldn't it be the girls are more loyal than us, the men? Loyalty is not a function of gender. There are some girls who just need attention... who want someone there. And when there's an argument, they rush to whoever gives them the attention. I, of course, refer to the same girls who don't consider the consequences. Stay away from these. A straight-headed girl may just leave because her needs aren't being fulfilled in the relationship. This happens to guys as well. Priorities change, people change. I'm not saying it's right but it happens - that's why we're here. This is a very subjective thing. I don't know.
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