greatgirlfriend Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I haven't had sex in many years and I am fine with that. My new motto is "until you put a ring on my finger, you won't get any action". I think I am still single because I had casual sex in my 20's, so I'll never repeat that mistake again.
conehead Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I haven't had sex in many years and I am fine with that. My new motto is "until you put a ring on my finger, you won't get any action". I think I am still single because I had casual sex in my 20's, so I'll never repeat that mistake again. I have the same motto and said the same thing months ago on LS. But then I got blasted with a lot of negativity by people here on his board as a result. Just be prepared for what kind of replies you will get.
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 I have the same motto and said the same thing months ago on LS. But then I got blasted with a lot of negativity by people here on his board as a result. Just be prepared for what kind of replies you will get. I expect the usuals will say I am a freak or something like that. It's something I had to do to get my sanity back. I had a lot of sex in my 20's and I often felt dirty. I'm pretty sure it's why I am still single. I want the sex to be special now.
Leia Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I expect the usuals will say I am a freak or something like that. It's something I had to do to get my sanity back. I had a lot of sex in my 20's and I often felt dirty. I'm pretty sure it's why I am still single. I want the sex to be special now. Good for you but make sure you stick to that. Most people say one thing and do another. I'm sure there is a guy out there that shares the same values.
Author greatgirlfriend Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 Good for you but make sure you stick to that. Most people say one thing and do another. I'm sure there is a guy out there that shares the same values. The guy I really like shares that value. However since he justs wants to be friends (hopefully he'll change) I am looking at others who feel the same. Most guys don't.
Leia Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 The guy I really like shares that value. However since he justs wants to be friends (hopefully he'll change) I am looking at others who feel the same. Most guys don't. It's a good thing that you plan to see other guys. You never know, there are guys that share the same value(s). Some men do prefer to wait until it is exclusive or even until marriage comes into the picture. Obviously they are in the minority [it also depends where these guys are from ].
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