moodoo Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 saturday our first date went well, dinner then drinks with my friends, then me and her get a bite to eat at 2 and then she gives me a kiss on the cheek good night tonight date 2, we get happy hour, I have her laughing hysterically and she invites me to her friends party at a bar tomorrow as her date with her friends, that was HUGE I figured, then as we're about to leave and go over to one of my friends places after happy hour she says she is tired and wants to go home, but she wants me to go with her tom to the party or possibly go to mardi gras 3 hours away to stay with one of my friends......I mean if a girl likes me, would she really go home like that tonight or would she just suck it up and hang out with me.....how do you see this all Does she like me, that's 2 dates and all I've gotten is a small kiss on the cheek and a big hug tonight
USMCHokie Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I wouldn't write her off just yet...some women are a little faster paced, some are slower paced...as long as she still wants to do things with you and even asks you to go with her to events, you're still golden...just take it a day at a time... She could have legitimately been tired...but if she makes a habit out of using that excuse, then I'd be suspicious... All systems go...
sid3 Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about, she has a party tomorrow night so it makes sense if she was tired tonitwe she'd want to go home early. No need to over think everything, that typically doesn't help matters and can actually steer things towards not working out too well.
D-Lish Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 If she just went home tired without trying to set up another date, I'd see that as a bad sign. Since she is talking about future dates, a simple answer is that she really was just tired.
Scarlett513 Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Sounds like she likes you, but she's not ready to sleep with you yet and so she took herself out of a potentially awkward situation. Give her time, it's only been 2 dates. If she didn't like you, she wouldn't invite you out again.
Austen Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 So far things are probably okay. But DO NOT pressure her. Pressuring her will drive her away more quickly than anything else. And when she's ready to sleep with you (whether it's next week or next month), you'll know it. I dump pushy men like hot potatoes.
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