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I'm bi but can never truly find out if i have a boyfriend!

hayley-1989

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Hey,

 

I'm a 20 year old female and i've been in a relationship with a boy for 5 years now and we're extreamly happy!!!

 

Since i was about 14 i've questioned my sexuality and last year I finally realised i was attracted to girls and it wasnt a phase. I came out to my boyfriend and he was very supportive! I thought he'd be like "fantastic! thats so hot!" but he wasnt. We had a chat and he was shocked, but he really didnt mind at all....infact...he likes that we can talk about girls in the same way!

 

But latly i've been thinking about girls, and liking them. I'm very much inlove with my boyfriend and have been for a long time, and i would love to be with him for the rest of my life! but then that means never ACTUALLY experiencing a woman! so basically i might aswel just be straight!!! but im deffinatly not.

 

me and him would LOVE threesome...but we're worried that it will ruin us!!!

 

what do people think? i would really appriciate some advice!

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Why not try a threesome with a complete stranger? Just set ground rules first - e.g. agree not to see the same woman more than once, to remove the chance of falling in love with her and ruining your main relationship; agree that if either of you feel uncomfortable, they can call "time out" and put a stop to it; agree 100% open communication about how you feel. I had an ex once who wanted to do the same thing, we tried it a couple of times but basically she got kinda jealous if me and the other woman did anything, so after a few times we agreed to stop.

 

If you are truly bisexual, rather than just curious/experimental, then you might find it difficult to be happy in a purely heterosexual/monogamous relationship, so bear that in mind. Many guys though would be tolerant of having threesomes with another girl from time to time, as long as he gets to have some fun with it too.

 

You'd probably benefit from reading/googling some information on bisexuality, polyamorous relationships, and that kind of thing.

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