cartierbenjamin Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 I was dealing with the girl about two years ago. We've known each other for about to years. I can truly say she was my first love. I stopped talking to her because she outright disrespected me a couple of times. A couple of days before her Birthday I woke up early in the morning to drop of flowers, a card, and her favorite treats, before she woke up. So when she woke up and was heading out the door it will be on the floor waiting for her....... About a week later..... I call her and she seems down about something...So I decided to suprise her and see what is wrong with her...I suprised her with some of her favorite food. When I went over there she seemed to distant. When I tried to touch her(non sexually) she would get mad and say dont touch me. We go to her her room and I touch her again and she says dont touch me or see what I will do to you. Then she goes by brings a knife and puts it between us. As time goes on she is on her computer and I try to see what she was doing and then she says "I cant wait till I see him" , basically rubbing it in my face. So I told her I was so heated that I stoped answering her calls. One day I get a call from a blocked number, I answered real quick, but the person hanged up. It was her....followed by a text message that she was mad that I wasnt answering and I should ignore her blah blah blah.. I felt bad for what I did and apologized. for ignoring her when she should have for disrespecting me............... The last straw was when I was calling her back to back....she finally answered and said she was studying....she wanted to me to do a favor for her.....so we talk for a couple of minutes, she says she is about to go to sleep and wishes me a good night...and get off the phone...then 5 mins later I realized I had to ask her what time I had to come over there...when I called back her line had a busy tone. So I was like maybe she is on the phone with one of her friends. Mind you its 2am in the morning. I called about 10 times and still get the busy tone....like a fool I did her the favor the next day. After that day I never talked to her again. Like all she had to say was Im talking on the phone I will talk to you later, but she acted like she was sleeping and even yawned and put on the sleepy voice. I realized Im the good guy they say they want, but they dont really want....So I never talked to her again after that....she would call but I would ignore....I even went a couple of months with my phone turned off majority of the time because I was so heartbroken... The Present...... Im on facebook and then along pops this message. Look, u dont have to respond or anything, I hope all is well with you....hope your life is going great without me....i really thought we were real friends until u stopped answering my calls...its all good though..I still pray for nothing but good blessings for u...have a great day!
OnlyJake Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 What's there to debate, or analyze? She's obviously a nutcase.
Thebob Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 What's there to debate, or analyze? She's obviously a nutcase. Amen, your in love with a nutcase and you did exactly what you should have except for apologizing to her. If she is going to disrespect you for the nice things you did for her, then you deserve a girl that will appreciate it and love you for what you did for them. This girl isn't that case and you should move on and keep strict NC with this nut. Thebob
mathhhausin Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Wow! its really nice to read ..Thanks for sharing ..i got some beautiful red flowers bokay ..
Leia Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 It's a good thing she's no longer in your life. It looked like she took advantage of your friendship. Wow! its really nice to read ..Thanks for sharing ..i got some beautiful red flowers bokay .. Spell bouquet correctly at least, if you were trying to use someone's thread to advertise your product
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