cartierbenjamin Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 a man was too good for you? It seems like that is an issue some woman have. On the contrary I never heard a man say that a woman is too good for him?
Jersey Shortie Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 Yes. And it can be quite intimidating when you are attracted to someone that you *think* is out of your league. Men might not outloud say a woman is too good for them but I know fear that just as much as women.
Author cartierbenjamin Posted February 15, 2010 Author Posted February 15, 2010 Yes. And it can be quite intimidating when you are attracted to someone that you *think* is out of your league. Men might not outloud say a woman is too good for them but I know fear that just as much as women. Im not talking on look wise. Im talking about how he treats you or what he does for you?
lookin2wardthefuture Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 I've never had this problem, but I welcome it!!!! I seem to attract let's just say, the "opposite" of that. All of my girlfriends say it's because I'm too nice. Are nice people doomed????
Jersey Shortie Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 I wasn't talking about just looks either. I never felt that I wasn't good enough for what a man did for me. Although, I am always appreicative of the effort a man might go to for me.
TouchedByViolet Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 I think both men and women can feel their gf/bf is too good for them. The feeling primarily exists at the beginning of a relationship or when you first meet someone because everything is new and all the stuff he/she does is so amazing, interesting, attracting etc. You rarely here people after a year of relationship still think their partner is too good for them.
soulm8 Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 a man was too good for you? It seems like that is an issue some woman have. On the contrary I never heard a man say that a woman is too good for him? I've thought a man was too good to be true... and pondered his sincerity. Actions speak louder than words so we must always pay attention to what the man is showing. Some men pursue full tilt until the challenge is gone... A man (player) told me I was too good for him. I was
OnlyJake Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 a man was too good for you? It seems like that is an issue some woman have. On the contrary I never heard a man say that a woman is too good for him? Im not talking on look wise. Im talking about how he treats you or what he does for you? I have thought this before. Basically he and I started out on the same page in regards to our relationship/feelings for each other; then I feel pretty hard for him. Had a talk about exclusivity and boundaries. He agreed, but then didn't follow those boundaries. So I backed way off, didn't open up with him, etc. Basically took it one day at a time with no expectations, and just enjoyed it for what it was. I have no idea what changed for the guy, but something did, and through words and especially actions I realized that he was actually really into me, and 100% committed to me. He started treating me like I was the most important person to him, and I was still stuck in "closed off" mode. I didn't realize that I was being like that until one day I casually mentioned something (don't recall what it was anymore) to him, and he got so happy about my comment. Later he mentioned how happy it made him that I finally was talking like we were going to be together for awhile. My behavior changed for the better after that.
angelaM Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 I have never felt this way. I am a good person and a great girlfriend and I give as good as I get.
Awesome Username Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 Yeah, this guy I'm seeing (who makes more $ than me) pays for ALL of my drinks and food, and I have to stop myself from saying I'll pay him back later or asking why he's being so nice. As the same time, if I had a good job I would probably spring for the tab for my friends and stuff too. He's very generous with everyone. All I can do is assume he doesn't think I'm a leech and thank him for everything he does for me. I really do appreciate it, too.
littlewhiterose Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 I once had a guy I was dating hint the sentiment of me being too good for him. Then he went out of his way to prove it.
phineas Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 every woman that thought I was too good for them cheated on me then proceeded to tell someone I knew how i was too good for them. Usually while crying or drunk or both.
rina_r Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Yes, but my friends and parents quickly kicked that stupid sh*t out of my head!
stillafool Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Yes, and like Jersey said, it's very intimidating.
Scarlett513 Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Both men and women can feel that, I think. I feel like I'm not good enough for my boyfriend. And from what he says, he feels like he's not good enough for me. Anyone can be insecure.
meerkat stew Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 every woman that thought I was too good for them cheated on me then proceeded to tell someone I knew how i was too good for them. Usually while crying or drunk or both. Yep, when I hear that, it means another guy is in the picture and to move on to other opportunities.
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