MissJane Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 me and my boyfriend have been with each other for about a year and half now, he's everything I wanted in a man but has a split personality and most of our relationship has been full of arguements and hurt. Yesterday of all days he decided to break up with me and said its unfair for me to keep stopping him from doing it in the past. Now the main problem, he keeps bringing up his ex and gets depressed which I cant cope with.Would anyone else? All day and night he would fall into depression and he says it because of her, I think the best thing to do is not be together yet my heart is breaking because I miss him so much help..........................
kwyser Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 This relationship is just going to cause you heartbreak. It would be in your best interest to get out. It is unfair for you to be brought into his depression because of his ex. Don't put yourself through that.
Green Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 me and my boyfriend have been with each other for about a year and half now, he's everything I wanted in a man but has a split personality and most of our relationship has been full of arguements and hurt. Yesterday of all days he decided to break up with me and said its unfair for me to keep stopping him from doing it in the past. Now the main problem, he keeps bringing up his ex and gets depressed which I cant cope with.Would anyone else? All day and night he would fall into depression and he says it because of her, I think the best thing to do is not be together yet my heart is breaking because I miss him so much help.......................... Of course you like him. If you didn't like him you would have already left. I think you are on LS posting right now because you know you should break up with him. I mean he talked about breaking up with you on V day of all days... he did it to be mean. Seriously you know what to do. If he really loves you he'll stop talking about his ex and not threaten you with break ups. He'll make you happy and you'll make him happy. Doesn't sound like thats what you have going.
Author MissJane Posted February 15, 2010 Author Posted February 15, 2010 Why is it that when I do say its best that we leave it he then turns round and says how much he loves me and that we shouldnt break up and he needs help getting through this, but why should I help him, this isnt right is it?
MizzBella Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 He sounds like he is really confused and is using you as an option. You should be in a relationship in which you are the priority. No contact with him at all sounds like your best bet - and in time you will wonder why you ever put up with his crap.
Author MissJane Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 its now come to light that im a rebound after being with me for a year and a half but he still texting me, should i just break up with him, iam being played?
MizzBella Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 From where I sit, it is hard to tell if you're being played. But if you've been together for a year+ and he is still bringing up his ex, then he must be confused. Personally, I have a pretty low tolerance for a significant other pining over another person. People need to learn how to heal before moving on to someone else and fooling with their emotions. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. If it were me, I wouldn't answer his texts (easier said than done, I know).
EYECANDY000 Posted February 17, 2010 Posted February 17, 2010 You should go. Sounds like he is using yyou to fill a void. which is his ex gf. Im not saying that he doesnt have feelings for you, but it sounds like he just needed someone around so he wouldnt think about his ex so much, Theres nothing worst than consoling your bf over another girl. No one wants to hold their bf in their arms and tell them its going to be ok, about another woman. Obviously you care about him, but you need to end this relationship. It doesnt seem like any good will come from it unless he gets help.
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