geckogirl Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 Hi there! I need some help with this situation, alllllll opinions and help is welcome!!! My boyfriend and I met in Washington in Nov 2008 and moved in together the following February. We have lived together since and have moved together to California. When we first started dating, he had just got back from a trip to Thailand with his ex (who he was dating when they went together) and showed me pictures from his trip. It was cool to see the temples and people.... until I saw pictures of him and his girlfriend cuddling, swimming together, (did I mention she looks great in a swim suit?)... She's tall, thin, and gorgeous, and he looked so happy and still talks about his trip. (They broke up after a year and a half (where we are in our relationship) because She cheated on him.) I'm short and curvaceous, not fat, but I've got hips and a chest, but over all, his ex and I look a LOT alike as far as our facial features. Yesterday was Valentine's day and we went to the park. I did all the cooking and dishes, packing for our picnic, etc. Last night I tried to make a move when we went to bed, but I got pushed away. We fell asleep on separate sides of the bed. We haven't had sex for the last 3 weeks since he got his new job and we don't have sex very often any more (maybe once every 2-3 weeks when we used to do it 2-3 times a day) and he says it's because he's worried he'll get me pregnant (I've been on birth control for the whole time we've been together and he knows that) and that he's slowing down (he's only 24). I don't know if his ex became unfaithful because the same thing happened to her as far as a dead stop in their sex life. Please help me. I feel so lonely and I'm just 18... I just don't know if he still finds me attractive, or if I've done something or if I'm not pretty enough since his ex is so pretty, or what. I just want to be happy.
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