dashing daisy Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 What is his problem? Would you go to a party at your ex's house if they didn't invite you? Why would he do that if he knew it was my house? He texted me and asked if it was okay that he was there, (I was out with some other friends),I said I don't really like getting called on a saturday night saying my idiot ex is in my apartment. He said his friends were going there so he had to follow them. Then he texted a couple times saying if I would just give him 10 minutes he could explain everything. He asked if he could come over tonight, or any other night if I wasn't free. He would "go anywhere" if I had time to talk. When I got back I said he could come upstairs if he wanted to. He had already gone home but he ran back over and called me. I let him inside. I listened to him for a couple minutes, he apologized, said he was an idiot and he just kept ****ing up and didn't know how to deal. I told him he hasn't shown me any respect or that he cared about me, because he was dating someone else immediately after but lied about it. He finally admitted he slept with that girl immediately after we broke up but it was "just a rebound", they were just hooking up, he was trying to get over me. He said he was really sorry, he just couldn't deal with being so far away from me, and couldn't stand the thought of telling me he had hooked up with someone else. He said he had never cared about anyone as much as he cares about me. He brought up an inside joke that we used to have?? I just said "you slept with her 2 weeks after I went to visit you?" He said yes. I told him to get out of my house, and walked him to the door. I know, I probably shouldn't have contacted him, that was my fault, but I am/was so upset. What is his problem? I would never go to a party at his house even if all my friends were going. Or is that normal ex behavior? He hasn't tried to contact me since I kicked him out. What do I do? What the hell is he trying to do?
GrayClouds Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 What the hell is he trying to do? Keep you playing this game, keep you in pain, and keep you from moving on from him. And it appears he is doing it pretty successfully. Though you can change that.
Ilovecake Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 God some people are so blind, it sounds just like something my ex would do as far as showing up a party at my house. His thought process however would be that I should just be over it and OK with him being there. I think you did the right thing by listening to him and then giving him the boot. Don't fall for his games, he's obviously having some sort of second thoughts, the magic word being 'second' and you deserve nothing less that to be #1.
Sadbutrelieved Posted February 16, 2010 Posted February 16, 2010 Post a picture of his face with a red circle and slash through it outside your door. I wouldn't want my ex in my place either.
Author dashing daisy Posted February 16, 2010 Author Posted February 16, 2010 It's awful, I am so sick of the bull****, but for some reason I just can't forget how I felt when we were together. I really loved him, and now he seems completely different. I don't want to cry over this guy anymore, I just wish he would stay away. I can't handle seeing him or having him show up at my house.
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