Messaging a chick "co worker" on Facebook, Twitter

[one goal]

Hey everyone. You might recall the thread I made about a month ago about the hot chick I like at work that told me she has a boyfriend for awhile though.

 

Anyways because of school I dont work that many hours a week so I don't see her very much at all now. If I don't see her at work for awhile is it ok to message her on Twitter or Facebook? You see I looked her up on twitter and facebook without her telling me. Would she find that creepy, stalkerish if I did that since she didn't give it to me?

 

Could she have me fired? Even though its not on company time? I hate my job and looking for another. At least if she got me fired then I could get unemployment right!

 

Advice please. I really like this girl a lot and shes pretty. I want to get to know her better because I like her personality and all.

[one goal]

Only thing is I want to try my best to ask her out in person.

[A_guy]

Don't be a e-stalker dude. Try to ask her in person. B/F anyone?

[angelaM]

Yes, that sounds creepy and stalkerish to me. If she has a boyfriend, why would you even do that? Do you talk to her at work, when you do see her? Also you can't get unemployment if you're fired.

[one goal]

Yes, that sounds creepy and stalkerish to me. If she has a boyfriend, why would you even do that? Do you talk to her at work, when you do see her? Also you can't get unemployment if you're fired.

 

Yea I talk to her, but she works in another dept at the store so I dont get to everyday.

 

She told me she has a bf when I was talking to her about how I was asking her friend if you were single or not cause I figured her friend told her but she didnt.

 

Shes really hot so I figure what is there to lose by asking her out.

[anne1707]

Shes really hot so I figure what is there to lose by asking her out.

 

Your job if she believes you are harassing her and stalking her.

[one goal]

Your job if she believes you are harassing her and stalking her.

 

Its only part time and I dont like it.

 

All I wanna do is ask her out, how is it stalking?

[ella23]

Its only part time and I dont like it.

 

All I wanna do is ask her out, how is it stalking?

 

Can't you find any other women where you live?

You really should stop the stalking and obsessing now, and get help.

[harmfulsweetz]

You know she has a bf, so why are you bothering? She hasn't even shown any interest in you, it's not like she's been giving you the come on, but has a bf, it's that she has shown no interest, and has a bf. That kind of already gives you your answer. You are a stalker. You're creepy. It may do you good to get fired so you can actually leave this chick alone.

[one goal]

You know she has a bf, so why are you bothering? She hasn't even shown any interest in you, it's not like she's been giving you the come on, but has a bf, it's that she has shown no interest, and has a bf. That kind of already gives you your answer. You are a stalker. You're creepy. It may do you good to get fired so you can actually leave this chick alone.

 

If she got me fired Id be mad and start messaging her and all that and tell her off. No reason a guy should be fired for asking a girl out.

[bayouboi]

dude how will she ever know how u feel about her?!?!?!?!!?!?! u should post on her facebook, twitter, myspace, e-mail, mailbox, sidewalk, sideofherhouse, car, whatever u can get ur hands on to make her know how u feeeeel about her!

[SOLACEMENT]

If she got me fired Id be mad and start messaging her and all that and tell her off. No reason a guy should be fired for asking a girl out.

 

dude how will she ever know how u feel about her?!?!?!?!!?!?! u should post on her facebook, twitter, myspace, e-mail, mailbox, sidewalk, sideofherhouse, car, whatever u can get ur hands on to make her know how u feeeeel about her!

You are horrid..lol...

[You'reasian]

Hey everyone. You might recall the thread I made about a month ago about the hot chick I like at work that told me she has a boyfriend for awhile though.

 

Anyways because of school I dont work that many hours a week so I don't see her very much at all now. If I don't see her at work for awhile is it ok to message her on Twitter or Facebook? You see I looked her up on twitter and facebook without her telling me. Would she find that creepy, stalkerish if I did that since she didn't give it to me?

 

Could she have me fired? Even though its not on company time? I hate my job and looking for another. At least if she got me fired then I could get unemployment right!

 

Advice please. I really like this girl a lot and shes pretty. I want to get to know her better because I like her personality and all.

 

Nothing wrong with adding someone on facebook or whatever if you know them or are associated with them.

 

If she has a boyfriend, do not persue her.

 

Since you work with her and she has a boyfriend, do not persue.

[one goal]

Nothing wrong with adding someone on facebook or whatever if you know them or are associated with them.

 

If she has a boyfriend, do not persue her.

 

Since you work with her and she has a boyfriend, do not persue.

 

So its ok for me to add her even though I went searching for it? It looks like she doesn't ever use facebook hardly only has two friends and no photos uploaded or anything. However when you message someone there the message also goes to their email.

 

Her twitter looks like she doesn't use much but she did use it in December.

[You'reasian]

So its ok for me to add her even though I went searching for it? It looks like she doesn't ever use facebook hardly only has two friends and no photos uploaded or anything. However when you message someone there the message also goes to their email.

 

Her twitter looks like she doesn't use much but she did use it in December.

 

You can add her. She can choose to accept or deny.

 

Again, considering she works with you AND has a boyfriend, persuing her for some kind of romantic relationship would be a very bad choice.

[harmfulsweetz]

What you are doing is verging on harassment, we've been through this all before with you about the very same girl on (I think) two other threads. Quite long threads if my memory serves me right.

 

Leave her alone. Seriously, you're creepy.

[one goal]

What you are doing is verging on harassment, we've been through this all before with you about the very same girl on (I think) two other threads. Quite long threads if my memory serves me right.

 

Leave her alone. Seriously, you're creepy.

 

How? I havent messaged her or asked her out yet.

[harmfulsweetz]

How? I havent messaged her or asked her out yet.

 

You know she has a boyfriend. I get it, you like her, and it's tough to accept, but what is the point chasing someone who is already taken? Surely, it would be better to focus your efforts on someone interested and available? It's not like she's even indicated any interest in you.

[sid3]

you could get charged with sexual harassment, happens everyday in the work place. She will find it creepy that you stalked her facebook and twitter as she didn't provide it to you. You have zero chance with this girl, start focusing on the thousands of other girls that you may have a chance with. You really need to stop the obsessing with the "she's really hot" How about being successful or at least gaining experience with attracive or even average girls. You make no sense selecting really hot girls, when you have no experience with the opposite sex yet. Stop making finding a date that much harder for yourself. And no, you shouldn't tell her you thinks she's cute. Thats been answered enough times already.

[one goal]

Shes off work the next few weeks. So if Im not working there then, then there is nothing wrong with messaging her then. She can't do anything to me then.

[You'reasian]

Shes off work the next few weeks. So if Im not working there then, then there is nothing wrong with messaging her then. She can't do anything to me then.

 

Its seriously a bad idea.

 

Do not persue women you work with, ESPECIALLY if they have a boyfriend. You are setting yourself up for trouble.

[one goal]

Its seriously a bad idea.

 

Do not persue women you work with, ESPECIALLY if they have a boyfriend. You are setting yourself up for trouble.

 

No, I mean if I found another job.

[You'reasian]

No, I mean if I found another job.

 

You're still persuing a taken woman.

 

That's bad decision making - taking another job so you can persue a taken woman?

 

Seriously???

[one goal]

You're still persuing a taken woman.

 

That's bad decision making - taking another job so you can persue a taken woman?

 

Seriously???

 

LOL. NO Im looking for another job because I dont like my current one.

[sid3]

Find another girl.There are plenty that don't have bfs. Actually find a few of them. You'll have less riding on the outcome if there are a few others that your talking to. Why don't you spend your time trying to find a date online instead of posting on LS about girls with bfs that you have no chance with.