spinal163 Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 This is a pretty long story, I was with this girl for a year and i knew that she still had a boyfriend in her own country but she doesnt like him anymore but had no real reason to break up with him. She told me everything but would lie to her boyfriend. After winter break, she told me that she wasnt being fair to me in that she was lieing to that guy and still being with me. So she broke up with me and the ex. Within a week, she got a new boyfriend that her best friend introduced her to. In the beginning I would text her and call her and she would ignore it. One day she called me at night crying saying that she doesn't really know if she really likes the new guy. So we went to dinner one night because I had a lot to tell her. So I asked her if she was with a new guy and she said no. When she said no I knew she was lieing to me and I felt that I don't want to tell her my feelings anymore. So after dinner i just stopped contacting her. After a week, she instant msg me saying that we have to talk and that i still have things to tell her. I told her that its in the past and its not important anymore. She told me that I am hurting her in not tell her my true feelings. So Thursday we had a long dinner and talk together. We both asked each other if we still have a chance of being together and I told her that I still like her and she did the same. She told me that one night she had a dream that I was with another girl and she felt really bad and she realized that she loves me. So I told her if we are going to have a chance together she would need to break up with her bf. After we finish talking, i drove her home and asked her if she was free on valentine's day and i would like to have dinner with her and she said yes. So today afternoon when I called her she told me that she broke up with the guy, but told me that she still doesn't know what to do now and that she needs space because she cares about that guy and she doesn't want to be with me right after she broke up with that guy and that guy was also in tears and also left her a really touching letter. We ended up eating dinner and after dinner she told me that she doesn't know what she wants right now so I told her that I won't give up but at the same time would give her space. Now I know she still likes me and so do I, but at the same time she can't commit to me because she doesn't know if she is going to hurt me again and she told me if I want to move on I should move on. So do I just stop contacting her again and just give her time to think? I am so confused right now.
DustySaltus Posted February 15, 2010 Posted February 15, 2010 (edited) This girl is bad news. She doesn't know how to break up with her bf in another country but then she breaks up with three different dudes in a matter of weeks. I would forget about her. Show her you care about yourself, cut contact with her and move forward. Edited February 15, 2010 by DustySaltus
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